{"id":9669,"date":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","date_gmt":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9669"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:52","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:52","slug":"kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris - Tap, lwanj ak rekonpans"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se konsa, isit la nan bagay la: si w ap ch\u00e8che pou anpil tape sou do a oswa f\u00e8 lwanj ak felisitasyon, yo te yon paran adoptif (oswa nenp\u00f2t travay nan travay sosyal, akty\u00e8lman) pa ta dwe pou ou.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Pou nou jis, se pa ke p\u00e8sonn pa w\u00e8 sa ou f\u00e8 oswa ke tan ou, en\u00e8ji ak ef\u00f2 yo pa remake ... men se ke moun ki remake yo souvan akable tankou ou epi on\u00e8tman yo pa pran tan pou di ou. .<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Repoze nan konesans ke w ap f\u00e8 yon bon travay epi asime ke l\u00f2t moun remake. Ou ka jwenn konsolasyon nan lef\u00e8t ke w ap tande yon moun si yo w\u00e8 ke gen yon pwobl\u00e8m; li definitivman yon ka nan "pa gen nouv\u00e8l se yon bon nouv\u00e8l".<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Sa pa vle di ke ou pap janm rekon\u00e8t... ou definitivman pral (e mwen dwe di ke Biwo pou Timoun yo vr\u00e8man fantastik nan rekon\u00e8t paran adoptif yo!), Men se pa chak fwa ou f\u00e8 yon bagay vr\u00e8man gwo. Se tankou lavi an jeneral, pa vre?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Pwen ke\u2026 se pwoteksyon timoun ki nan swen w la ki vr\u00e8man enp\u00f2tan epi ou menm, k\u00f2m paran adoptif la, jis kontinye, kontinye f\u00e8 epi kontinye defann timoun nan.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Yon koup paran adoptif te di li nan fason sa a:<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u201cW ap santi w pa gade, ou pa apresye, epi pafwa trete w tankou si w pa gen okenn lide. Kontinye goumen pou timoun yo malgre sa."<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u201cOu pral f\u00e8 ANPIL defans. Mwen te konn vin pi gwo e kounye a, mwen tr\u00e8 vokal epi mwen ka f\u00e8 ka mwen san yo pa pete nan dlo (anjeneral).<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Koulye a, si ou pa anjeneral nan yon koube emosyon\u00e8l, d\u00e8nye k\u00f2mant\u00e8 sa a ta ka konfizyon ... men liy anba a se ke li ka vin emosyon\u00e8l, paske timoun sa yo vin "nou". Nou lobby sou non yo epi ale bat pou yo paske yon moun bezwen. Epi p\u00e8sonn pa konnen yo tankou nou f\u00e8... pafwa pa menm fanmi byolojik yo.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Ak on\u00e8tman, sa a se egzakteman sa nou te siyen pou f\u00e8. Si w gen timoun byolojik, konbyen fwa yon moun di w ke w ap f\u00e8 yon travay formidable? Pa pr\u00e8ske osi souvan ke ou tande sou li l\u00e8 gen yon pwobl\u00e8m, dwa?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Nan travay, \u00e8ske ou souvan f\u00e9liciter pou atansyon ou pou detay oswa \u00e8ske li pi posib ke ou jis kenbe kamyon ansanm ak nen ou pou grindstone a, men, l\u00e8 yon pwobl\u00e8m rive, se l\u00e8 sa a ou tande yon moun sou kalite travay ou?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Koulye a, mwen espere ke mwen se mal epi ke ou ap douch ak lwanj pou paran gwan distribisyon ak p\u00e8f\u00f2mans travay eksepsyon\u00e8l, men pi souvan pase pa, mwen panse ke li nan opoze a. Se pa ke konpliman PA vini ... yo definitivman f\u00e8. Men, li pa osi souvan ke pet\u00e8t nou ta renmen, oswa santi ke yo jistifye.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Pwen ke: swen adoptif pa diferan de nenp\u00f2t l\u00f2t bagay ou f\u00e8 nan lavi. Si ou nan tranche yo epi f\u00e8 yon enpak sou lavi a nan yon timoun, jis konnen ke chanje trajectoire nan lavi timoun nan pou pi bon an se pi gwo ak pi bon lwanj ou ta ka janm resevwa.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Sens\u00e8man,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So\u00a0here\u2019s the thing: if you are looking for lots of pats on the back or praise and accolades, being a foster parent (or any job in social work, actually) might not be for you.\u00a0 \u00a0To be fair, it\u2019s not that no one sees what you do or that your time, energy and effort are not […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9669","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\nKris' Corner- Pats, Praise & Accolades - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"ht_HT\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kris' Corner- Pats, Praise & Accolades - 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