{"id":9645,"date":"2021-07-22T22:11:41","date_gmt":"2021-07-22T22:11:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9645"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:52","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:52","slug":"kris-corner-from-the-trenches-part-9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-from-the-trenches-part-9\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris- Soti nan tranche yo: pati 9"},"content":{"rendered":"
Sa a se blog ki sot pase a nan seri sa a (ki te sipoze piti men te fini yo te apepr\u00e8 6 plis posts pase mwen antisipe) ... paske gen jis anpil bagay sou ki mwen vle ou dwe okouran. Mwen vle je ou louvri jan yo kapab. E menmsi w p ap janm prepare w n\u00e8t pou vwayaj sa a, mwen vle pou w omwen kapab di, "O wi...sa a te pran m sou gad, men answit mwen sonje Kris t ap pale de sa nan blog li a."<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Sa te di, d\u00e8nye ti kons\u00e8y \/ enf\u00f2masyon mwen an se sa a: ou pa janm pral konpl\u00e8tman prepare pou yon nouvo plasman, k\u00e8lkeswa jan di ou eseye. Ak nan yon s\u00e8ten degre, mwen panse ke paran adoptif sa a encapsule li pi byen ak k\u00f2mant\u00e8 li: "<\/span>Pare pou achte chos\u00e8t ak kil\u00f2t pou chak plasman!<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Koulye a, ou ka evidamman gen, nan men, yon rez\u00e8vasyon nan chos\u00e8t ak kil\u00f2t nan tout gwos\u00e8 posib ak konbinezon s\u00e8ks ... men on\u00e8tman ki jan reyalis sa a? Mwen panse ke pwen li (anplis evidan an) se ke pral toujou gen yon bagay ou bezwen ... epi li ta ka gwo, li ta ka piti. Oswa li ta ka tou de.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Timoun yo souvan rive ak ti kras nan anyen (jan nou te diskite anvan) kidonk li pral travay fanmi adoptif la pou rasanble sa ki neses\u00e8.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Kl\u00e8man, k\u00e8k bagay pral deja nan men yo. Pa egzanp, si w konnen w ap planifye pou w pran timoun 0-4 ane, ou ka pwobableman devine ki ekipman (panse pous\u00e8t, ch\u00e8z machin, elatriye) kabann, ak jw\u00e8t ou ta ka bezwen. Men, bagay tankou bout\u00e8y, tas, kouch\u00e8t, rad, f\u00f2mil, elatriye\u2026.li pa ta pratik pou gen tout kalite sou men. Yon koup bout\u00e8y oswa tas? Asire w...men li ta ka pa kalite timoun nan abitye ak li refize li...konsa w ap oblije achte plis. Yon ti ponyen kouch\u00e8t nan chak gwos\u00e8? Asire w, men w ap toujou gen jwenn plis.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Pou egzanp, pitit gason nou an te jis plis pase 3 mwa men li te nan rad ki f\u00e8k f\u00e8t ak kouch\u00e8t l\u00e8 li te premye vini. Epi super-chill 8mo yo mete av\u00e8k nou te mete rad 18-24 mwa. Pwen ke: ou jis pa janm konnen epi ou pa ka toujou asime ki gwos\u00e8 w ap bezwen ki baze sou laj.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Pwen mwen nan tout bagay sa yo se ke ou ka prepare, men yon pati nan preparasyon sa a ta ka nan f\u00f2m lan nan yon lis bagay ou konnen ou pral bezwen jwenn yon fwa timoun nan lakay ou ... paske ou pa konnen ki sa. ou pa konnen. Epi ou pa pral konnen jiskaske ou nan li. Epi sa se ok!<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Sens\u00e8man,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" This is the last blog in this series (which was supposed to be small but ended up being about 6 more posts than I\u00a0anticipated) \u2026because there are just so many things about which I want you to be aware. I want your eyes as open as they can be. And even though you\u2019ll never be […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9645","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n