{"id":9458,"date":"2021-07-08T20:11:57","date_gmt":"2021-07-08T20:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9458"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:53","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:53","slug":"kris-corner-from-the-trenches-what-i-wish-id-known-part-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-from-the-trenches-what-i-wish-id-known-part-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris-Soti nan tranche yo: Sa mwen swete mwen ta konnen pati 7"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mwen te manyen sa a yon ti kras deja men mwen vle mete aksan sou pwen an patikilye sa a: ou bezwen fleksib l\u00e8 ou se yon paran adoptif. Sa a se toujou vre nan plasman inisyal la, men sa a bezwen fleksibilite <\/span>PRAL, gen plis chans, kouri tout kou a nan ka a. Sa pa vle di li se entansyon\u00e8l oswa ke li te f\u00e8 espre ... se tou senpleman fason swen adoptif la souvan ale.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Men sa yon manman adoptif te di sou sa: \u201cMwen te sezi w\u00e8 jan SOUVAN randevou ak plan yo chanje. Apepr\u00e8 3\/4 nan bagay nou pwograme yo chanje l\u00e8 yon moun an reta, repwograme, elatriye... li mande ANPIL fleksibilite.\u201d<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Kidonk, l\u00e8 mwen te ok\u00f2mansman te diskite sou kons\u00e8p fleksibilite a, se te anrap\u00f2 ak fonksyone chak jou nan kay la ak konp\u00f2tman timoun nan, pou premye jou ak sem\u00e8n sa yo apre yon timoun vin lakay ou.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00f2s sa a pale plis ak lef\u00e8t ke pafwa li ta ka santi yon ti jan tankou w ap mache sou chanjman sab; pa s\u00e8lman nan k\u00f2mansman an, men tout wout la. Paske gen anpil moun ki enplike nan yon ka, konfli or\u00e8 yo komen epi li souvan santi ke paran adoptif yo se yo menm ki oblije chanje or\u00e8 yo.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Li pa toujou ka a, evidamman; men li santi sa konsa pafwa.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Men, mwen pral di sa: nan k\u00f2mansman yon ka, DCS ak manadj\u00e8 ka CB ou a ak sip\u00e8viz\u00e8 vizit yo ak nenp\u00f2t l\u00f2t moun ki enplike yo ap f\u00e8 eksperyans menm bagay ak ou ... paske yo tout ap eseye kreye liy debaz la pou timoun nan. avanse. Epi pou kreye liy debaz la, yo dwe konnen sa k ap pase (oswa ki pa rive) anvan yo retire a.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Epi pandan tout l\u00f2t moun nan ka a ap gade d\u00e8y\u00e8 epi gade pou pi devan, ou menm, k\u00f2m paran adoptif la, nan tranche a. Se vre ke w ap gade sa k ap vini nan tan kap vini an, men sitou w ap gade tou sa k ap pase kounye a devan ou ak sa ki bezwen adrese imedyatman. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sa vle di ou gen premye randevou dokt\u00e8 yo (e souvan li pral travay ou pou ch\u00e8che dokt\u00e8 anvan an, ki se pwobableman plase pa Medicaid); ou pral p\u00e8t\u00e8t bezwen<\/span>\u00a0dant\u00e8\u00a0<\/span>randevou, ak randevou Premye Etap oswa l\u00f2t randevou terapi. Epi se responsablite w pou w planifye sa yo (e pet\u00e8t repwograme yo si sa neses\u00e8).<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Epi pandan w ap planifye bagay sa yo, li posib\/pwobab ke premye vizit la ak fanmi byolojik la ap planifye tou. Ak premye odyans nan tribinal la. Ak yon vizit nan FCM ou. Ak yon vizit nan men travay\u00e8 CB ou a. Ak yon vizit nan CASA la. Epi apre premye odyans lan, or\u00e8 vizit la pral mete an plas.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sa pa mansyone f\u00e8 timoun nan ale ak soti nan lek\u00f2l (ke se li lek\u00f2l regilye oswa yon transf\u00e8 nan lek\u00f2l la tou pre ou). Oswa konnen gadri pou timoun.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Apre sa, mwen s\u00e8ten li pa difisil w\u00e8 ki jan k\u00e8k nan sa yo ta ka fini yo se doub (oswa trip) rez\u00e8rvasyon. Donk, pwen m ap f\u00e8 la a se pou w konnen w ap bezwen fleksib. Ak konpreyansyon. Epi jis konnen ke pa gen moun ki ap eseye f\u00e8 ou repwograme bagay sa yo, men, k\u00f2m yon egzanp, souvan si yon randevou dokt\u00e8 ak yon vizit ak paran byolojik yo pwograme an menm tan, ou pral li menm ki f\u00e8 chanjman an. Pa toujou, men wi, men souvan.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Koulye a, jan mwen mansyone pi wo a, fleksibilite sa a pa neses\u00e8 jis nan k\u00f2mansman an nan yon ka, men potansy\u00e8lman tout wout la.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Menm si gen anpil egzanp sou fason fleksibilite ou ta ka rele nan jw\u00e8t, yon s\u00e8l patikilye sa a vin nan t\u00e8t mwen paske se te ka a pou nou. Paske pitit gason nou an te t\u00e8lman wo medikal, paran byolojik li yo te mande pa jij la pou yo ale nan tout randevou dokt\u00e8 li yo. Epi apre randevou a, yo ta pran r\u00e8s vizit yo.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sa te f\u00e8 m fache ok\u00f2mansman men finalman mwen te vin konprann rez\u00f2nman jij la. Si li ta dwe reyini ak paran li, yo ta dwe tande tout bagay nan men dokt\u00e8 a kons\u00e8nan swen li. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Men, si mwen totalman on\u00e8t, men sa ki vr\u00e8man fache m ': manda sa a te mande anpil fleksibilite nan men mwen, paske timoun sa a te gen ANPIL randevou dokt\u00e8. Mwen pa t 'kapab pran randevou ank\u00f2 selon bezwen mwen yo, men olye mwen te oblije f\u00e8 yo l\u00e8 paran yo te disponib. Li konprann, mwen poko rive konprann lef\u00e8t ke yon pati nan w\u00f2l mwen k\u00f2m yon paran adoptif te fleksib ... e se fleksibilite nan b\u00f2 kote m 'ki te ede paran yo travay plan yo pi byen ke yo te kapab.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Pwen ke yo...menm si ou pa toujou vle fleksib epi pafwa ou pa ka konprann rezon ki f\u00e8 yon chanjman oswa poukisa ou dwe koube ... Mwen ta ankouraje w kenbe nan la epi f\u00e8 sa ou kapab pou rann sitiyasyon an viable pou tout moun. patisipe. Li pa janm yon bagay p\u00e8son\u00e8l kont ou, menm si ou santi ou tankou ou ap f\u00e8 yon anpil nan "flexing" la epi finalman ta ka youn nan moun ki gen chanje plan.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Epi pandan ke li pa f\u00e8 nesesite pou fleksib pi agreyab, \u00e8spere ke sa ede w w\u00e8 nesesite pou li e ke, omwen pafwa, li ta ka pr\u00e8ske yon w\u00f2l pa ekri pou yo te yon paran adoptif.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Sens\u00e8man,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kris\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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