{"id":9360,"date":"2021-05-13T23:01:52","date_gmt":"2021-05-13T23:01:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9360"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:54","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:54","slug":"kris-corner-vacations-with-your-foster-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-vacations-with-your-foster-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris la-Vkans ak pitit adoptif ou"},"content":{"rendered":"
Nan on\u00e8 Mwa Nasyonal Swen Adopsyon ak yon ane kote vakans ka akty\u00e8lman rive, mwen te panse revize "Vakans ak Timoun Adopsyon Ou" te apwopriye.<\/p>\n
Yon bagay mwen vle klarifye anvan mwen lanse nan: l\u00e8 ou gen yon timoun ki soti nan swen adoptif, yo pral gen "bezwen espesyal". Yo ka gen yon kondisyon medikal oswa pwobl\u00e8m emosyon\u00e8l ... oswa lite ak ef\u00e8 ch\u00f2k yo te f\u00e8 eksperyans. Oswa yon konbinezon de plizy\u00e8 bagay. Yo ka pa toujou konsidere k\u00f2m "bezwen espesyal" men yo, omwen pou yon tan. Se konsa, mwen mansyone ke jis asire w ke nou tout sou menm paj la jan li gen rap\u00f2 ak p\u00f2s sa a.<\/p>\n
Sa te di, souvan pa gen okenn "vakans" rey\u00e8l l\u00e8 w ap vwayaje ak yon timoun ki gen bezwen espesyal. Gen s\u00e8lman yon vwayaj nan yon kote ki pa gen okenn abitye, woutin oswa estrikti; li gen ladan tw\u00f2p manje tenten makonnen ak anpil nouvo eksperyans ki souvan mennen nan overstimulation ak, pi move nan tout, tw\u00f2 piti d\u00f2mi.<\/p>\n
Ak tout moun rete ak realizasyon an ke kay ak woutin se pi bon bagay tout tan!<\/p>\n
Se konsa, poukisa nou f\u00e8 vakans? Apre tou, li t ap fasil pou sispann f\u00e8 li epi li ta sove nou anpil lajan tou. Nou kontinye ale paske timoun ki bezwen espesyal mwen renmen vakans. Li renmen plaj la. Li renmen m\u00f2n yo. Li renmen nouvo lakou rekreyasyon ak monte bisikl\u00e8t ak f\u00e8 tout bagay sa yo "bagay vakans". E menm timoun nerotipik mwen yo, ki ta ka vizib "sou" bezwen espesyal yo pafwa, on\u00e8tman renmen li tou... malgre pafwa yo santi yo tankou yon sirk vwayaje. Epi kw\u00e8 m ', gen k\u00e8k fwa nou jis bezwen anplasman yon tant gwo t\u00e8t epi chaje admisyon.<\/p>\n
Nou f\u00e8 bagay sa a fou ak difisil yo rele "vakans pou fanmi" paske li se sou viv ak renmen ak f\u00e8 souvni fanmi ... epi yo pa toujou sou fikse sou bezwen yo.<\/p>\n
Sa te di: \u00c8ske nou adrese bezwen yo nan vakans pi byen nou kapab? Absoliman. \u00c8ske ef\u00f2 nou pafwa tonbe kout? Absoliman. \u00c8ske nou pran t\u00e8t nou epi eseye ank\u00f2 jou kap vini an ak ane kap vini an? Absoliman.<\/p>\n
L\u00e8 nou reflechi sou tout vwayaj nou yo, nou pa sonje jan li te difisil. Olye de sa, nou pale de bagay tankou bann mouton yo ki soti nan okenn kote ak atake youn nan pitit gason nou yo l\u00e8 li rale yon ti tranch pitza soti nan glasy\u00e8 a. Oswa, nou sonje yon ti mache asw\u00e8 sou plaj la l\u00e8 mwen te jwenn yon p\u00e8 lin\u00e8t sol\u00e8y Ray Ban lave sou sab la. Mwen toujou mete lin\u00e8t sol\u00e8y yo ak fanmi mwen refere yo k\u00f2m "kado mwen soti nan lanm\u00e8 a". Souvni espesifik sa yo ki inik pou fanmi nou yo se sa nou sonje chak fwa nou mansyone vakans.<\/p>\n
E se pou sa nou f\u00e8 li. Paske pitit gason "bezwen espesyal" nou an vo li. Tout pitit gason nou yo vo li. Epi paske fanmi nou vo li tou.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>\n
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In honor of National Foster Care Month and a year when vacations can actually happen, I thought revisiting \u201cVacations with Your Foster Child\u201d was appropriate. One thing I want to clarify before I launch in: when you have a kiddo from foster care, they will have \u201cspecial-needs\u201c. They might have a medical condition or emotional […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9360","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n