{"id":9335,"date":"2021-05-05T15:39:24","date_gmt":"2021-05-05T15:39:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9335"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:55","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:55","slug":"kris-corner-navigating-mothers-day-with-biological-moms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-navigating-mothers-day-with-biological-moms\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris la - Navige Jou Manman an ak manman byolojik"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jou manman an. Sa f\u00e8 m &#039;chak ane ... depi pitit gason nou an te vin viv av\u00e8k nou. Mwen swete mwen ta ka di li vin pi fasil; men, on\u00e8tman opoze a se vre. Mwen reflechi sou manman l &#039;nesans plis nan Jou Manman an pase nenp\u00f2t l\u00f2t l\u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>Mwen eseye mete t\u00e8t mwen nan soulye li epi imajine kisa sa ye pou li san pitit gason l &#039;(ak nan ka li a, S\u00c8L pitit) nenp\u00f2t jou, men espesyalman nan yon s\u00e8l jou nan yon ane konsakre bay manman yo.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e8ny\u00e8man mwen te aprann ke jou anvan jou manman an se f\u00e8t manman an. Se konsa, nan lespri a nan Jou manman an, ak Jou nesans manman an, mwen jis vle mete dey\u00f2 yon ankourajman yo selebre manman nesans yon timoun.<\/p>\n<p>Koulye a, mwen konnen ou ka panse: &quot;Poukisa mwen ta selebre fanm sa a ki te f\u00e8 X, Y ak Z pou pitit li a?&quot; Paske nan fen jounen an, k\u00e8lkeswa konpetans paran li (oswa mank de yo), li gen plis chans vr\u00e8man renmen pitit li. Li ka pa gen okenn lide ki jan yo montre lanmou sa a, oswa ki gen okenn lide ki jan paran ... men \u00e8ske ou janm pran yon poz pou konsidere poukisa sa ta ka?<\/p>\n<p>Menm si ou te reflechi sou sa, ann ale sou wout sa a pou jis yon ti moman: Li gendwa te jis lite pou paran paske li pa gen okenn sip\u00f2. Mwen vle di tankou ZEWO moun nan lavi li ki ka ede l... oswa montre ki jan paran an sante sanble. Oswa, pet\u00e8t li pa janm te gen yon moun renmen li; kidonk, li pa gen okenn lide ki jan yo montre renmen yon l\u00f2t moun. E si li gen fonksyon kognitif ki ba? Oswa pet\u00e8t li pa konnen ki jan yo soti anba yon dejwe oswa soti nan yon relasyon abizif.<\/p>\n<p>Gen anpil rezon ki f\u00e8 li te retire pitit li nan swen li. Men, k\u00e8lkeswa &quot;poukisa&quot;, li te kapab toujou selebre; omwen li te chwazi lavi pou li epi li pral toujou gen yon koneksyon av\u00e8k li ... menm si s\u00e8lman atrav\u00e8 byoloji. Se konsa, si yon timoun av\u00e8k ou tanpor\u00e8man oswa pou tout tan, li toujou yon moso nan li, epi li pral toujou.<\/p>\n<p>Pou pa selebre li se pa selebre pati sa a nan li ... ki ta ka f\u00e8 mal pou li, tou de nan kounye a ak nan pita. Plis sou sa nan yon l\u00f2t p\u00f2s.<\/p>\n<p>Pou anpeche yon py\u00e8j konsa pou pitit ou a, mwen te vle ba ou k\u00e8k ide ou ta ka konsidere l\u00e8 w ap panse sou selebre manman nesans pitit ou a.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>yon nav\u00e8t anprent men k\u00e8k kalite pou yon timoun ki pi piti (Pinterest gen yon TON nan kalite bagay sa yo, kidonk tcheke la si w ap bezwen enspirasyon)<\/li>\n<li>yon foto, penti, oswa potri ki pentire timoun nan f\u00e8<\/li>\n<li>yon istwa oswa pow\u00e8m oswa yon bagay timoun nan te ekri pou oswa sou li<\/li>\n<li>yon foto...sa a ta ka yon foto ki te pran d\u00e8ny\u00e8man (ou ta ka mande sip\u00e8viz\u00e8 vizit la pou \u00e8d ak sa) oswa yon foto ki te pran depi lontan li ak timoun nan ansanm, mete nan yon ankadreman pou kons\u00e8ve.<\/li>\n<li>yon liv foto mare nan jis timoun nan (oswa timoun nan ak fr\u00e8 ak s\u00e8, sitou si yo mete yo nan l\u00f2t kay)<\/li>\n<li>yon jounal vid ak k\u00e8k b\u00e8l plim<\/li>\n<li>k\u00e8k nan ti goute li pi renmen yo...sitou gwo si yon timoun pi gran epi li konnen sa li ta renmen; oswa menm jis k\u00e8k ti goute ke yon timoun ta renmen chwazi pou li k\u00e8lkeswa si wi ou non li konnen sa li renmen.<\/li>\n<li>fl\u00e8 koupe fre<\/li>\n<li>yon kat handmade<\/li>\n<li>Bonbon endij\u00e8n<\/li>\n<li>mande DCS pou li f\u00e8 yon vizit siplemant\u00e8 pou selebre jounen an, oswa omwen yon ap\u00e8l Zoom<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Yon n\u00f2t rapid, paske mwen konnen k\u00e8k nan nou ka nan yon sitiyasyon kote timoun nan pa pral w\u00e8 manman l &#039;paske vizit yo te sispann: jwenn yon bwat espesyal pou mete l&#039; nan sekirite. Sa a kapab yon fason pou timoun nan senbolikman &quot;bay&quot; li jouk l\u00e8 li akty\u00e8lman kapab. Se konsa, fason sa a li ka toujou f\u00e8 oswa achte yon bagay pou li (pa perisab, pou rezon evidan) epi li jis &quot;nan yon mod\u00e8l kenbe&quot; pou yon ti jan. Li te kapab tou mete l\u00f2t papye espesyal, kan\u00e8, prim, elatriye nan la pou montre li nan yon dat pita.<\/p>\n<p>Koulye a, tounen nan selebrasyon an: sa a pa dwe gen anyen gwo oswa ch\u00e8. Jis yon bagay pou make jou sa a, epi p\u00e8m\u00e8t li konnen ke yon moun ap panse li. Ki jan trajik yo pa janm panse a, dwa? Oswa pa konnen si w ap janm panse a. Men, jou manman an, omwen, li ta konnen gen panse yon kote nan li.<\/p>\n<p>Sa te di, yon selebrasyon li pa diminye plas ou nan lavi ak k\u00e8 pitit adoptif ou a.<\/p>\n<p>Vr\u00e8 konfesyon: Mwen te lite ak lide sa a pou yon tan rey\u00e8lman long, e on\u00e8tman, panse a selebre li te f\u00e8 m &#039;jalouzi. Mwen pa t &#039;kapab konprann ki jan li ta ka p\u00e8t\u00e8t renmen l&#039;, men atrav\u00e8 anpil lekti, etidye, ak entwospeksyon, mwen konnen ke se vre: li pa gen yon kantite fini nan renmen bay, kidonk li KA renmen l &#039;epi li. ka renmen mwen. Nou tou de ansanm. Gen ase plas nan k\u00e8 l pou nou tou de. Sa pa vle di li renmen nou menm, men li ka renmen nou tou de.<\/p>\n<p>Epi se pout\u00e8t sa manman nesans pitit ou a ka (epi DWE) dwe selebre.<\/p>\n<p>Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mother\u2019s Day. It gets me every year \u2026 since our son came to live with us. I wish I could say it gets easier; but, honestly the opposite is true. I think about his birth mom more on Mother\u2019s Day than any other time. 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