Donk, d\u00e8nye fwa mwen te diskite sou sip\u00f2 atrav\u00e8 gwoup an p\u00e8s\u00f2n; ak jan yo te pwom\u00e8t la, mwen ta renmen kounye a pale sou gwoup sip\u00f2 sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t.<\/p>\n
Sa yo se gwoup yo ki s\u00e8lman tout tan sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t. Yo anjeneral gen moderat\u00e8 ki ka apwouve p\u00f2s, ak\/oswa retire p\u00f2s ki pa anf\u00f2m nan direktiv manm gwoup la. Yo sou medya sosyal oswa k\u00e8k s\u00f2t de fow\u00f2m sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t.<\/p>\n
Anpil fwa ou gen pou aplike pou rantre nan asire ke ou vle konf\u00f2me yo ak r\u00e8g manm yo ak pwoteje vi prive gwoup la. (F\u00e8 tout sans l\u00e8 w ap f\u00e8 fas ak sij\u00e8 sansib ak byenn\u00e8t timoun l\u00f2t moun.)<\/p>\n
Gwoup sa yo kapab piti, men sa yo mwen te rankontre ak mwen yon pati nan gen d\u00e8 sant\u00e8n, si se pa d\u00e8 milye, manm.<\/p>\n
Ak nan eksperyans p\u00e8son\u00e8l, mwen panse ke li difisil pou jwenn pw\u00f2p branch fanmi p\u00e8son\u00e8l ou l\u00e8 gen anpil moun nan gwoup la.<\/p>\n
Men, gwoup yo sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t definitivman gen plas yo nan rezo sip\u00f2 a; menm si yo ka pa fason ki pi fasil pou jwenn l\u00f2t moun ak ki moun ou santi yon gwo koneksyon p\u00e8son\u00e8l oswa jwenn sip\u00f2 sere, youn-a-yon s\u00e8l. Yo bon pou pran biwo v\u00f2t, poze kesyon, oswa jwenn opinyon (ou ka jwenn yon anpil nan repons varye, epi pafwa gen k\u00e8k outliers ou pa ta janm atann, paske gwoup yo t\u00e8lman gwo ak varye),<\/p>\n
Ak gwoup sa yo toujou disponib. Pa gen "\u00e8dtan" pou la<\/p>\n
Ent\u00e8n\u00e8t...pou ou ka li, ch\u00e8che epi poste sou paj la nenp\u00f2t l\u00e8 nan jounen an. Se pa tout moun k ap viv la ki ta aksepte yon kesyon 2am sou f\u00f2mil ou itilize a oswa kijan pou jere yon sitiyasyon ak paran byolojik yon timoun. Oswa nenp\u00f2t l\u00f2t kesyon ki pa ijan ou ka genyen nan mitan lannwit lan.<\/p>\n
Yon l\u00f2t benefis nan sip\u00f2 sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t se ke ou ka jwenn aks\u00e8 yo nan kote aleka. Pet\u00e8t ou rete lwen vil san yon vwazen nan je; pet\u00e8t nan sezon fredi a ou pa ka kite pou jou nan yon moman ak\u00f2z n\u00e8j la ak glas. Men, ou toujou bezwen sip\u00f2 nan vwayaj swen adoptif ou ak gwoup sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t ta definitivman la pou ou.<\/p>\n
Anfen, gwoup sa yo ka ofri ou anonim. Pafwa kons\u00e8y yo pran pi fasil nan men etranje. Oswa ou ka gen kesyon men pa neses\u00e8man vle mande moun ou konnen yo. Pet\u00e8t kesyon an se g\u00f2ch oswa al\u00e8z... Se konsa, li difisil pou gade yon moun nan je epi mande; souvan li pi fasil pou jete li dey\u00f2 nan "espas" bay yon pak\u00e8t moun ou pa konnen.<\/p>\n
Mwen jwenn li itil tou nan yon anviw\u00f2nman sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t pou w\u00e8 sa l\u00f2t moun ap pale ak mande sou. Pafwa, enf\u00f2masyon an ka sanble initil nan moman sa a, men pi souvan pase pa, mwen jwenn ke mwen tape sou resous sa a mansyone oswa di yon l\u00f2t paran adoptif sou li yon kote nan liy lan. Se konsa, k\u00f2m yon resous lide \/ lide-pataje, mwen panse ke gwoup yo sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t yo kokenn. Senpleman grasa gwo kantite yo, ou ka jwenn t\u00f2n rek\u00f2mandasyon resous ki gen anpil val\u00e8.<\/p>\n
Anplis de sa, mwen renmen gwoup sa yo pou rek\u00f2mandasyon liv\/fim\/ak blog yo (ank\u00f2, mwen pral f\u00e8 yon p\u00f2s isit la byento ak rek\u00f2mandasyon p\u00e8son\u00e8l mwen sou bagay sa yo, pou moun nan nou ki ta renmen li plis sou k\u00e8k nan bagay mwen te manyen yo, oswa pou kolekte plis zouti pou bwat zouti swen adoptif ou a, pandan w ap prepare pou w antre ladan l.)<\/p>\n
Koulye a, gen dezavantaj definitif nan gwoup sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t (tankou ak tout bagay). Ou ka mal konprann, paske ou ka s\u00e8lman ekri panse ou ak kesyon. Mwen dwe di ke anpil moun nan monn jodi a yo konpwann ak\u00f2z move mo nan im\u00e8l, posts ak t\u00e8ks. Se konsa, sa a definitivman yon posibilite, espesyalman l\u00e8 yo kominike ak moun ki pa konnen ou ditou nan lavi rey\u00e8l, epi ki konnen sa ou ta ka vle di; olye pou yo jan yon p\u00f2s konnen.<\/p>\n
Yon l\u00f2t posibilite se ke anonim nan ki sanble itil kapab tou f\u00e8 mal; moun pa toujou ezite koupe yon moun paske yo PA konnen li. Li p\u00e8m\u00e8t pou f\u00e8 k\u00f2mant\u00e8 ki pa apwopriye, derespektan, blese oswa rayi\u2026e li pa bezwen yon jeni pou konprann ke konp\u00f2tman sa yo f\u00e8 yon gwoup sip\u00f2 tr\u00e8 pa sip\u00f2te.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, kons\u00e8y jeneral mwen an (ki ka aplike tou pou gwoup an p\u00e8s\u00f2n) se sa a: eseye yon gwoup sip\u00f2 sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t pou k\u00e8k sem\u00e8n, epi si li pa klike av\u00e8k ou, pa ezite ale oswa eseye yon l\u00f2t. . Se pa tout gwoup ki paf\u00e8 pou tout moun, kidonk pa gen okenn wont nan "kraze" ak yon gwoup epi deplase sou.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
So, last time I discussed support through in-person groups; and as promised, I\u2019d like to now talk about online support groups. These are the groups that are only ever online. They typically have moderators who can approve posts, and\/or remove posts which do not fit within the group\u2019s membership guidelines. They are on social media […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9193","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n