Pou kontinye seri nou an sou sip\u00f2 pandan y ap ankouraje, mwen ta renmen pran yon ti tan jodi a epi pale sou gwoup sip\u00f2 an p\u00e8s\u00f2n.<\/p>\n
Malerezman, ak\u00f2z pandemi an, yo souvan vity\u00e8l. Men, yo toujou diferan de gwoup sip\u00f2 sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t nan ke ou akty\u00e8lman ka w\u00e8 ak pale ak moun. Ou ka f\u00e8 konnen yo, tande istwa yo, koute kons\u00e8y yo epi deside si ou vle pran li oswa kite li.<\/p>\n
Pou asire w, gen anpil nan sa yo ki disponib. Men, se souvan yon kesyon pou jwenn youn ki adapte bezwen ou, vle, renmen ak aversion.<\/p>\n
Pafwa yo ofri gwoup sa yo atrav\u00e8 legliz; pafwa yo se atrav\u00e8 DCS, ajans oswa l\u00f2t \u00f2ganizasyon; epi pafwa se tou senpleman yon pak\u00e8t paran adoptif ki te jwenn youn l\u00f2t e ki te k\u00f2manse pw\u00f2p gwoup sip\u00f2 yo.<\/p>\n
Anplis de sa, gwoup sip\u00f2 yo varye nan estrikti yo. Yo ka gen yon seri or\u00e8 sij\u00e8 ak\/oswa yon ajanda pou chak reyinyon, oswa pet\u00e8t yo gen k\u00e8k s\u00f2t de etid liv. Gen l\u00f2t gwoup ki ka gen moun kap pale, e sa ka tradwi nan \u00e8dtan f\u00f2masyon pou re-lisans ou.<\/p>\n
Gen k\u00e8k gwoup ki ofri gadri, ki ka itil, espesyalman pou paran adoptif s\u00e8l; pafwa jwenn yon sitter kapab yon defi pou nou tout.<\/p>\n
L\u00f2t fwa, reyinyon yo se gratis-pou-tout kalite...sa vle di ke nenp\u00f2t moun ki par\u00e8t, par\u00e8t, epi ou diskite sou tout sa ki nan k\u00e8 moun nan moman sa a.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, mwen pral on\u00e8t ... gwoup la mwen f\u00e8 pati nan woulo tankou sa. Otan ke mwen renmen estrikti ak woutin, mwen dwe adm\u00e8t gen konf\u00f2 nan konnen ke medam sa yo la pou mwen, k\u00e8lkeswa sa mwen vle pale sou EPI mwen pa santi presyon sou sij\u00e8 a s\u00e8lman sou ajanda asw\u00e8 a. . Nou pa gen okenn ajanda, pa gen okenn sij\u00e8 fiks epi pa gen okenn gadri. Nou vin pataje youn ak l\u00f2t, youn sip\u00f2te l\u00f2t, youn konseye l\u00f2t epi pafwa kriye youn ak l\u00f2t. E menm si nou pa gen gadri pou timoun, nou tout te pran tou pa nou nan pase nan ti renmen yo adoptif ki pafwa asiste reyinyon yo.<\/p>\n
Ki sa mwen renmen pi plis sou gwoup yo an p\u00e8s\u00f2n, omwen nan eksperyans mwen, se ke ou akty\u00e8lman ka w\u00e8 ak pale ak moun. Ou jwenn yo konnen yo nan yon nwayo, nivo debaz, ki ka pa rive ak gwoup sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t. Ou ka tande istwa yo, (tande vwa yo!), tande sa ki f\u00e8 yo tik, e pet\u00e8t aprann sou ki moun yo te anvan yo te ankouraje (ki se pafwa yon moun diferan!). Ki moun nou te ye anvan swen adoptif f\u00f2me ak moule ki moun nou ye k\u00f2m paran adoptif, kidonk li bon pou konnen "kiy\u00e8s" yon moun te ye anvan.<\/p>\n
Epitou, ou ka ba yo yon akolad si yon bagay sa yo neses\u00e8 (pa enkyete ... se pa tout moun ki yon "abrase" kidonk jis paske ou nan yon gwoup an p\u00e8s\u00f2n sa PA vle di ou dwe anbrase nenp\u00f2t moun ... Mwen di li ta ka vini menm si, kidonk prepare, sitou si sa a pa konfiti ou).<\/p>\n
Gwoup an p\u00e8s\u00f2n yo ka ede w bese gad ou, kite ou pwofite sousi, enkyetid, bezwen ou yo epi santi (epi yo) sip\u00f2te emosyon\u00e8lman. Ak\u00f2de, sa ka rive tou ak gwoup sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t, men p\u00e8son\u00e8lman mwen santi ke li pi difisil pou konekte ak santi sekirite a louvri sou "tout bagay sa yo."<\/p>\n
Gen yon bagay yo dwe di pou chita sou tab la ak pale fas a fas ... ak rem\u00e8t yon tisi si bezwen an rive.<\/p>\n
Sepandan, yon gwoup an p\u00e8s\u00f2n ka pa travay pi byen pou ou, p\u00e8sonalite ou, oswa or\u00e8 ou, e sa paf\u00e8tman byen. Li ka pa travay pou f\u00f2m ou oswa nivo konf\u00f2 ou. Se pout\u00e8t sa gen l\u00f2t opsyon ki disponib ki ka sip\u00f2te ou nan fason ou bezwen an.<\/p>\n
Pwochen moute: gwoup sip\u00f2 sou ent\u00e8n\u00e8t.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
To continue our series on supports while fostering, I\u2019d like to take some time today and talk about in-person support groups. Unfortunately, due to the pandemic, they are often virtual. But they still differ from online support groups in that you actually can see and talk to people. You can get to know them, hear […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n