{"id":9032,"date":"2021-01-07T21:13:41","date_gmt":"2021-01-07T21:13:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9032"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:07","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:07","slug":"kris-corner-the-adoptable-child-who-is-not-adopted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-the-adoptable-child-who-is-not-adopted\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris' Corner \u2013 Timoun Adoptab ki pa Adopte a"},"content":{"rendered":"
Pafwa, yo mete yon timoun nan kay la epi li sanble ke li se yon anf\u00f2m paf\u00e8 nan fanmi an. Men, k\u00f2m tan ap pase, ak ka li a jwe dey\u00f2 epi li vin legalman gratis, fanmi adoptif la pa adopte li. Poukisa se sa? Mwen s\u00e8ten ke pou moun ki poko antre nan mond swen adoptif, sa a ka konfizyon oswa ka kite ou mande sa ki te pase.<\/p>\n
Kidonk, mwen pral dwat on\u00e8t... nou pa janm te prezante ak sitiyasyon an kote yon timoun ki disponib pou adopte te lakay nou epi nou pa t 'kapab oswa chwazi pa adopte li. Men, eksperyans p\u00e8son\u00e8l mwen sou kote, mwen konnen definitivman sa a se yon sitiyasyon ki rive nan swen adoptif, kidonk mwen ta renmen pran k\u00e8k minit pou adrese li. E menm si mwen pa ka di w ak s\u00e8titid sa ki te pase nan chak sitiyasyon, mwen ka ba w plizy\u00e8 posiblite. E kenbe sou chapo ou, paske gen anpil e mwen s\u00e8lman lis k\u00e8k nan yo isit la.<\/p>\n
Finalman, youn nan pi gwo rezon ki f\u00e8 timoun yo adopte yo pa adopte se paske paran adoptif yo souvan antre nan swen adoptif ak atant irey\u00e8l. Yo te eksite anpil pou antre nan "jw\u00e8t la" epi yo k\u00f2manse ede, men yo pet\u00e8t pa osi reyalis jan yo ta dwe sou ef\u00e8 yo nan ch\u00f2k sou yon timoun ak sa ki ta sanble ap viv anba do kay yo. Yo ta ka panse, "Sa a pral etonan! Nou pral gen k\u00e8k timoun mete av\u00e8k nou epi nou pral ede yo e tout bagay pral mache byen epi apre nou pral adopte yo.<\/p>\n
Epi sa a souvan pa ka a.<\/p>\n
Pafwa, timoun nan ak paran adoptif yo tou senpleman pa kosyon oswa konekte byen. Pafwa, paran adoptif yo gen yon kwayans prejije sou yon timoun ideyal, men timoun ki plase av\u00e8k yo a pa janm pral viv jiska ideyal sa a. Ak tout tw\u00f2 souvan, adopsyon an pa pran plas.<\/p>\n
Tout bagay sa yo di, premye (oswa dezy\u00e8m, twazy\u00e8m oswa katriy\u00e8m) timoun yo mete av\u00e8 w la ka pa timoun ou adopte a...pou nenp\u00f2t ki rezon.<\/p>\n
Mwen tou senpleman f\u00e8men nan ankouraje tout paran adoptif potansy\u00e8l (ak akty\u00e8l, si sa aplikab) yo dwe ouv\u00e8 l\u00e8 y ap pran yon plasman. Chak timoun (sepandan li vini nan fanmi w... pa nesans, swen adoptif, fanmi, adopsyon, elatriye) pral gen defo. Okenn timoun pa paf\u00e8. Mwen ankouraje yon lespri ouv\u00e8 ak yon k\u00e8 ouv\u00e8, epi answit kontinye pou woulib kote swen adoptif pran ou.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sometimes, a child is placed in the home and it seems like he is a perfect fit into the family. But as time goes by, and his case plays out and he becomes legally free, the foster family does not adopt him. Why is that?\u00a0 I am sure that for people who have not yet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9032","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n