{"id":9015,"date":"2020-12-10T20:41:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-10T20:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9015"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:21","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:21","slug":"kris-corner-christmas-in-foster-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-christmas-in-foster-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris&#039; Corner \u2013 Nw\u00e8l nan Foster Care"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mwen konnen nan yon p\u00f2s anvan mwen te diskite sou navige jou ferye yo ak paran byolojik. Koulye a, mwen ta akty\u00e8lman renmen mete k\u00e8k panse desann kons\u00e8nan jou ferye yo an t\u00e8m de timoun adoptif yo t\u00e8t yo.<\/p>\n<p>Ane sa a, k\u00f2m sa li ye, nou ka pa tout gen gwo rasanbleman fanmi nou te f\u00e8 nan tan lontan an. Se konsa, li ka pa k\u00f2m anpil nan yon pwobl\u00e8m. Sepandan, mwen pral adrese li k\u00f2m si se yon ane tipik.<\/p>\n<p>Jou ferye yo difisil pou anpil moun, men sitou pou timoun adoptif yo. Yo pa ak fanmi byolojik yo. \u00c8ske ou ka menm imajine ki jan sa dwe santi ... yo dwe lwen konf\u00f2 nan kay la? K\u00f2m nou te diskite deja, se lwen sa ki n\u00f2mal se yon bagay ki twoublan ak boulv\u00e8san, menm si n\u00f2mal sa a pa an sante.<\/p>\n<p>Pou pi mal, timoun adoptif yo ka ap viv ak yon fanmi ki pa konnen kisa pou yo f\u00e8 kons\u00e8nan jou ferye yo. Fanmi adoptif la ta ka panse sou bagay tankou:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c8ske nou mete timoun adoptif yo nan foto fanmi yo?<\/li>\n<li>\u00c8ske nou achte yo menm kantite kado ak pitit byolojik nou yo?<\/li>\n<li>\u00c8ske nou depanse menm kantite lajan pou chak timoun adoptif?<\/li>\n<li>\u00c8ske nou dwe depanse pw\u00f2p lajan nou pi lwen pase sa DCS ak Children&#039;s Bureau pral ranbouse nou pou?<\/li>\n<li>Ki jan fanmi pwolonje nou okipe achte kado (ak tout l\u00f2t &quot;aktivite jou ferye&quot;)?<\/li>\n<li>\u00c8ske li oke pou fanmi pwolonje nou achte kado pou timoun byolojik nou yo men se pa timoun adoptif nou yo?<\/li>\n<li>Oswa \u00e8ske yo ka evidamman &quot;ale bon mache&quot; sou timoun adoptif yo &quot;paske li pa enp\u00f2tan ... yo pa rey\u00e8lman timoun nou yo&quot;?<\/li>\n<li>Ki jan yo ta dwe jere tout bagay sa yo (ak plis ank\u00f2)?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Pandan w ap li kesyon sa yo, ou ka pwobableman devine sa m pral di annapre. Men, si ou pa kapab, ou ta ka nouvo nan blog mwen an.<\/p>\n<p>Yo ta dwe trete timoun ou yo k\u00f2m si yo se pitit ou yo. Paske omwen pou pery\u00f2d tan sa a... yo se pitit ou yo. Yo ta dwe trete ak menm lanmou, swen, konpasyon ak resp\u00e8 ak nenp\u00f2t timoun ki legalman pou ou pou tout tan. Kidonk, si ou depanse yon s\u00e8ten kantite pou chak timoun, kantite lajan sa a ta dwe depanse tou pou timoun adoptif la. Sa ka vle di depanse nan p\u00f2ch ou pou kado (pi lwen pase sa DCS ak Children&#039;s Bureau ranbouse) oswa koupe sou sa ou depanse nan byolojik ou yo.<\/p>\n<p>Mwen konnen pwochen bagay sa a ta ka super touchy men mwen pral di li de tout fason; fanmi pwolonje ta dwe f\u00e8 menm bagay la. Si yo gen pwobl\u00e8m ak aksepte kons\u00e8p sa a, f\u00e8 bagay sa yo egal, L\u00e8 sa a, pet\u00e8t ou, k\u00f2m paran yo, bezwen di yo pa deranje achte nenp\u00f2t kado.<\/p>\n<p>Ouch. Men mwen kontinye...<\/p>\n<p>Gen plis chans, pitit byolojik ou yo pral OK san kado yo nan fanmi pwolonje. Pi wo pase tout l\u00f2t bagay, epi sa ki pi enp\u00f2tan, ou pral sove resp\u00e8 ak anpeche domaj emosyon\u00e8l timoun adoptif ou yo.<\/p>\n<p>Si ou gen tradisyon fanmi Nw\u00e8l, enkli timoun adoptif yo; menm si li difisil epi li koute ou lajan. Mande t\u00e8t ou, \u00e8ske li vo sakrifye timoun nan emosyon\u00e8lman paske ou pa vle deranje ak li oswa ou pa vle depanse lajan an?<\/p>\n<p>Mwen konnen sa a sanble piman bouk. Men, mwen pa t ap mete l dey\u00f2 si m pa t w\u00e8 l ak pw\u00f2p je m.<\/p>\n<p>Finalman, toujou mete yo nan foto yo. Pou pery\u00f2d tan sa a, pou menm rezon ak kado yo, mete yo nan foto yo. Yo f\u00e8 pati fanmi ou; menm si se pa pou tout tan. \u00c8ske ou ka imajine anbarasman yo ta santi nan esklizyon an?<\/p>\n<p>Yo se fanmi ou epi yo ta dwe trete k\u00f2m sa yo.<\/p>\n<p>Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know in a previous post I discussed navigating the holidays with biological parents. Now, I\u2019d actually like to put some thoughts down regarding the holidays in terms of the foster kids themselves. This year, being what it is, we might not all have the large family gatherings that we have had in the past. 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