{"id":8979,"date":"2020-11-25T21:05:56","date_gmt":"2020-11-25T21:05:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=8979"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:21","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:21","slug":"kris-corner-when-to-say-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-when-to-say-no\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris - L\u00e8 pou di non"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Men bagay la...repons sa a pral yon repons diferan pou tout moun, men ki l\u00e8 ou ta dwe di &quot;non&quot; nan yon plasman posib? Gen anpil, anpil, anpil rezon pou di wi...e pou k\u00e8k nan nou, &quot;wi&quot; ap toujou repons lan, paske ou gen kapasite (emosyon\u00e8lman ak fizikman) pou f\u00e8 sa.<\/p>\n<p>Men pafwa, gen pou di &quot;non&quot;. Pou w ka pran yon desizyon ki gen bon konprann, epi sitou si w gen yon kalite p\u00e8sonalite tankou mwen, ou dwe gen limit kl\u00e8 sou kalite plasman w vle ak kapab aksepte.<\/p>\n<p>Jan mwen te pale de sa a pi wo a, gen k\u00e8k moun ki byen ouv\u00e8 epi yo vle epi yo kapab pran pr\u00e8ske nenp\u00f2t kalite plasman ... epi mwen di, &quot;Bondye beni yo! Sa se tou senpleman etonan!&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Men, mwen kw\u00e8 ke majorite nan nou gen yon pwofond\u00e8 nan kapasite nou yo epi yo dwe mete limit an plas ... tou de pou t\u00e8t nou ak ajans lan.<\/p>\n<p>Pou egzanp, si ou te mete param\u00e8t ki di:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>2 timoun maksim\u00f2m<\/li>\n<li>Ti gason s\u00e8lman<\/li>\n<li>Gen laj 5-12 s\u00e8lman<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Men, ou resevwa yon ap\u00e8l ak yon plasman ijans nan yon ti gason ak 2 tifi, tout anba 4 ... PA PRAN PLASMAN! (Sa a se eksperyans mwen k ap antre nan jw\u00e8t isit la ... Mwen konnen sou sa mwen pale!)<\/p>\n<p>Kounye a, Children&#039;s Bureau pwobableman pa ta rele w ak yon demann konsa, men yon l\u00f2t ajans ta ka mande w pou konsidere pran yon plasman andey\u00f2 espesifikasyon w yo.<\/p>\n<p>Li parfe OK pou ou di, &quot;non&quot;, paske ou konnen ki sa ou ka jere, ou konnen ki sa ou yo mete nan akomode, ak d\u00e8nye bagay ke ou menm, ajans ou a, AK timoun yo menm vle se pou yon dez\u00f2d. (gade <u>p\u00f2s mwen an<\/u> sou sij\u00e8 sa a). Si ou pran plas pi lwen pase sa ou ka sip\u00f2te, li pral pr\u00e8ske s\u00e8t\u00e8nman fini nan dez\u00f2d.<\/p>\n<p>Koulye a, toujou gen posiblite pou yo resevwa ap\u00e8l plasman &quot;paf\u00e8&quot; la, men tan an pa bon. Pet\u00e8t w ap pare pou w ale an vakans; kl\u00e8man, sa se pa yon tan ideyal pou pran yon plasman. Yon timoun ap bezwen tan pou li rete epi mete yo nan swen rel\u00e8v pandan vakans ou a pa pral ede rezoud pwobl\u00e8m nan. Li la tou pa egzakteman jis, oswa ideyal.<\/p>\n<p>Pet\u00e8t yon manm fanmi malad, yon moun pw\u00f2ch jis te mouri, oswa lavi a tou senpleman pi lwen pase fou ak timoun yo deja nan kay ou. Oswa pet\u00e8t ou jis te gen yon plasman reyini epi ou bezwen pran yon etap tounen pou yon minit yo nan l\u00f2d yo pran souf ou. Pou tout rezon sa yo, ak plis ank\u00f2, li se ok pou di &quot;non&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Sa pa vle di ajans ou p ap rele w ank\u00f2. Mwen asire w, yo pral. Sa pa vle di yo panse ou difisil oswa fou oswa yon gaspiyaj nan tan tout moun (m ap di tout bagay sa yo, paske mwen te p\u00e8 pou yon tan long ke yo te w\u00e8 nou konsa ... ki, k\u00f2m li vire ... pa t &#039;. vre). Yo apresye ou menm ak plas ou nan mond swen adoptif sa a. Yo apresye limit ou yo (menm si yo vle yo te pi gwo), paske li ede yo konnen ou epi ke w ap evite yon dez\u00f2d.<\/p>\n<p>Li OK pou di &quot;non&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here\u2019s the thing\u2026this answer is going to be a different answer for everyone, but when should you say \u201cno\u201d to a possible placement? There are many, many, many reasons to say yes\u2026and for some of you, \u201cyes\u201d will always be the answer, because you have the capacity (emotionally and physically) to do so. But sometimes, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":8980,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Kris&#039; Corner - When to say no - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-when-to-say-no\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"ht_HT\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kris&#039; Corner - When to say no - Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Here\u2019s the thing\u2026this answer is going to be a different answer for everyone, but when should you say \u201cno\u201d to a possible placement? 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