Oke, kidonk gen jou kote mwen panse, "Mwen tw\u00f2 granmoun pou sa!" Men, mwen konnen li pa vr\u00e8man vre. Natir\u00e8lman, gendwa gen yon laj kote yon moun ta ka tw\u00f2 granmoun pou adopte, ki pral varye de moun a moun... Mwen pral ak\u00f2de ou sa. Men, li se WAY pi gran pase sa moun ta vle m eseye kw\u00e8. E mwen konnen li pi gran pase mwen!<\/p>\n
Se konsa, an n rey\u00e8l pou yon minit. Anpil moun (gen k\u00e8k nan yo ki pi piti pase m 'epi mwen pa KE laj... \u00e8ske ou ka di mwen ta ka yon manyen sansib sou sa a?!) Di m ke yo tw\u00f2 granmoun yo dwe yon paran adoptif. Se pa yon pwobl\u00e8m sante, se pa yon pwobl\u00e8m lajan, se pa yon pwobl\u00e8m espas (vid-nid, m ap pale av\u00e8k ou)\u2026men olye yo di m yo tw\u00f2 granmoun.<\/p>\n
Um, non... ou pa. Epi kite m di w poukisa. Paske plis w ap vin granmoun, se plis w ap gen plis saj; plis sezonman ou jwenn; epi pafwa plis dou ou jwenn. Epi kw\u00e8 m ', paran sere se d\u00e8nye bagay timoun ki soti nan kote difisil bezwen.<\/p>\n
Se pa ke mwen se yon paran dou, pa nenp\u00f2t detire (pa bezwen verifye sa a ak pitit mwen yo, paske yo pral jete m 'anba bis la). Men, mwen definitivman pi rilaks nan apw\u00f2ch mwen nan paran pase mwen te ak de timoun ki pi gran mwen yo (espesyalman youn nan pi gran an ... regr\u00e8t sou sa, mesye).<\/p>\n
Panse: granparan. Sa pa vle di ou se granparan oswa ou ase granparan, donk pa ale nan blog sa a epi panse ke mwen rele ou granmoun, paske mwen pa. Men, ank\u00f2, ou ta ka granparan, e sa totalman travay tou! Pwen mwen isit la se sa a: l\u00e8 ou konsidere granparan ideyal yo ak jan yo ka cho, akeyan, renmen ak sansib ... plis yo souvan yon ti kras plis fredi nan fason yo jere bagay sa yo ... sa a son plis tankou yon kalite ideyal nan paran adoptif. , pa vre?<\/p>\n
Jis yo dwe kl\u00e8, fredi se pa fen-tout-be-tout la. Men, mwen te aprann ke pafwa mwen bezwen f\u00e8 yon etap d\u00e8y\u00e8 nan konp\u00f2tman endezirab yon timoun epi deside si mwen bezwen mete yon poto nan t\u00e8 a sou repons mwen an; oswa, si mwen ka rete kontwole t\u00e8t mwen epi reyalize chwa oswa konp\u00f2tman timoun nan se pa yon bagay ki pral f\u00e8 oswa kraze jounen an. Sa a se yon repons sou pw\u00f2p pati mwen ki te soti nan tan ak eksperyans ak * gasp * ... laj.<\/p>\n
"L\u00e8 nou konnen pi byen, nou f\u00e8 pi byen"... epi anjeneral konnen pi byen ak f\u00e8 pi byen vini ak laj ak eksperyans.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
OK, so there are days when I have the thought, \u201cI am too old for this!\u201d But, I know it is not really true. Naturally, there may be an age when an individual might be too old to foster, which will vary from person to person\u2026I\u2019ll grant you that. But, it is WAY older than […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":8764,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8763","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n