{"id":86731,"date":"2025-10-10T10:08:56","date_gmt":"2025-10-10T14:08:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=86731"},"modified":"2025-10-10T10:08:56","modified_gmt":"2025-10-10T14:08:56","slug":"kris-corner-self-care-kind-of","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-self-care-kind-of\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris la \u2013 Pran swen t\u00e8t ou (yon jan kanmenm)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mwen konnen sij\u00e8 swen p\u00e8son\u00e8l la se yon sij\u00e8 cho. Tout moun ap pale de swen p\u00e8son\u00e8l, asire w ou pran swen t\u00e8t ou, swen t\u00e8t ou, swen t\u00e8t ou, swen t\u00e8t ou. E on\u00e8tman, sa te f\u00e8 m fache pandan yon bon bout tan paske m te santi tankou m t ap pran swen t\u00e8t mwen. Kite m sou do m kounye a! Men, l\u00e8 m te vr\u00e8man rete epi gade toutotou, mwen reyalize ke m t ap vr\u00e8man pran swen l\u00f2t moun epi m t ap foure bagay pou t\u00e8t mwen si sa te posib (e se raman sa te posib).<\/p>\n<p>Men, mwen reyalize, pandan m ap f\u00e8 yon ti pa d\u00e8y\u00e8 epi m ap eseye f\u00e8 bagay yo jis pou mwen, ke li ENP\u00d2TAN. Mwen te deja pale de sa nan l\u00f2t p\u00f2s, men mwen santi li merite pou m repete l: li fasil anpil pou w p\u00e8di t\u00e8t ou l\u00e8 w ap f\u00e8 yon fanmi ak\u00e8y ak yon adopsyon. Omwen se te sa pou mwen. Mwen te t\u00e8lman konsantre sou eseye ranje\/ede pitit mwen an ke mwen te p\u00e8di tout sans ak vizyon kiy\u00e8s mwen te ye ak sa mwen te renmen.<\/p>\n<p>Mwen te konn renmen f\u00e8 aktivite atistik, f\u00e8 aerobik epi li. Epi, yon fwa mwen te plonje nan mond sa a, pif\u00f2 nan sa te sispann. Mwen te santi mwen pa t ka jistifye tan an paske l\u00e8 mwen pa t ap pran swen yon timoun ki te twomatize, mwen te oblije f\u00e8 l\u00f2t bagay pou kenbe kay la an fonksyon. Mwen te grandi nan yon kay ki te pw\u00f2p anpil e byen ranje e mwen te santi se te sa tout moun te atann de mwen tou. Epi se te sa mwen te atann de t\u00e8t mwen tou. Mwen te panse mwen te oblije kwit manje chak swa, epi mwen te santi mwen koupab si mwen te ajoute yon pitza glase.<\/p>\n<p>Mwen pa konnen si se pasaj tan an, p\u00e8spektiv, oswa jis paske mwen vr\u00e8man fatige...men finalman mwen reyalize mwen te bezwen jwenn t\u00e8t mwen ank\u00f2. Epi mwen pa konnen si se egzakteman sa pran swen t\u00e8t ou ye, men li ye pou mwen.<\/p>\n<p>Gen k\u00e8k nan sa ki ka touche w, gen l\u00f2t ki ka pa touche w, men men yon echantiyon k\u00e8k chanjman mwen te f\u00e8 pandan de d\u00e8nye ane yo, e grasa yo, mwen santi m pi lib e mwen sanble ak t\u00e8t mwen. Epi mwen reyalize tou ke fanmi mwen pa soufri ditou paske m ap pran swen t\u00e8t mwen tou. Anf\u00e8t, yo pwobableman ap f\u00e8 pi byen paske mwen pa toujou eseye f\u00e8 tout bagay pou yo.<\/p>\n<p>Kidonk, men lis k\u00e8k nan chanjman mwen yo, san okenn l\u00f2d patikilye:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Mwen gen yon chen ki peze 70 liv ki bezwen pwonmennen 3 a 4 fwa pa jou, konsa mwen ka soti dey\u00f2, f\u00e8 egz\u00e8sis epi pran l\u00e8 fre.<\/li>\n<li>Mwen achte yon jile lest pou m mete l\u00e8 m ap pwonmennen chen an. Epi pafwa toupre kay la. Mwen remake li ede m kontwole k\u00f2 m anpil, sitou l\u00e8 m ap f\u00e8 premye pwomnad nan maten an.<\/li>\n<li>Leve apepr\u00e8 in\u00e8dtan anvan tout l\u00f2t moun nan kay la. Mwen abiye m. Mwen bw\u00e8 yon tas kafe. Mwen gen yon ti tan trankil epi mwen li k\u00e8k liv. Mwen ka menm prepare dine. Li jis bon pou mwen pou m gen kay la pou kont mwen... paske sa pa rive souvan.<\/li>\n<li>Si m soti pou yon reyinyon nan asw\u00e8, mwen pa toujou santi m anvi gen dine pare pou fanmi mwen. Ka gen k\u00e8k r\u00e8s oswa ka pa genyen. Mwen ka ba yo k\u00e8k opsyon sou sa yo ka prepare oswa mwen jis di yo chak moun poukont yo.<\/li>\n<li>Mwen pran tan pou m li yon liv pr\u00e8ske chak jou. Nan moman m ap ekri sa a, mwen li 75 liv ane sa a. Mwen te konn renmen li epi mwen te toujou santi m koupab l\u00e8 m te pran tan an, men ane sa a, mwen deside mwen p ap santi m koupab pou sa.<\/li>\n<li>Mwen peye yon ti kras anplis pou m al pran mak\u00e8t. Mwen konnen alafen, mwen pwobableman ap ekonomize lajan paske mwen pa pral f\u00e8 okenn acha enpilsyon epi li pi fasil. Anplis, mwen ka voye pitit gason granmoun mwen ki rete lakay la vin pran acha a si sa neses\u00e8.<\/li>\n<li>Mwen te k\u00f2manse f\u00e8 jadinaj, mwen dekouvri ke mwen renmen li, epi mwen te ap f\u00e8 kons\u00e8v pou m ekonomize pou sezon iv\u00e8 a.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Jan m te di a, lis ou a ka sanble byen diferan de pa m nan e sa pa gen pwobl\u00e8m. Jan m te di a, gen moun ki ka pa konsidere sa k\u00f2m yon swen p\u00e8son\u00e8l, men omwen se yon tantativ pou m jwenn chemen m pou m retounen jwenn t\u00e8t mwen, e pet\u00e8t ou menm tou ou ka jwenn t\u00e8t ou sou wout la.<\/p>\n<p>Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know that the topic of self-care is a hot button issue. Everybody\u2019s talking about self-care, make sure you do your self-care, self-care, self-care, self-care. And honestly, it made me mad for a long time because I felt like I was taking care of myself. Get off my back already! 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