{"id":8245,"date":"2020-05-14T12:09:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T12:09:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=8245"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:50","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:50","slug":"biological-parents-are-the-underdogs-we-should-cheer-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/biological-parents-are-the-underdogs-we-should-cheer-for\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris&#039; Corner - Paran byolojik yo se moun ki p\u00e8rdan nou ta dwe aplodi pou"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8248 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/stock-photo-mom-and-baby-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/>Mwen pa konnen sou ou, men mwen renmen yon bon istwa &quot;underdog&quot;. Ou konnen de sa m ap pale, pa vre? Nou tout te w\u00e8 yo (oswa pwobableman omwen tande pale de yo): &quot;Rocky&quot;, &quot;Hoosiers&quot;, ak &quot;The Hunger Games&quot; pou nonmen k\u00e8k.<\/p>\n<p>Kidonk, poukisa nou echwe pou nou aplodi pou moun ki pa gen anyen yo l\u00e8 li rive nan swen adoptif? Paran byolojik yo souvan dezagreyab nan chak istwa swen adoptif. Se yo menm ki f\u00e8 fas ak anpil adv\u00e8site, souvan (men pa toujou) f\u00e8 eksperyans depandans, abi, neglijans, sanzabri, maladi mantal, elatriye.<\/p>\n<p>Poukisa nou santi li akseptab pou panse bagay tankou &quot;yo se moun ki pi mal nan mond lan epi si yo te retire pitit yo, yo pa ta dwe janm f\u00e8 l tounen. Pery\u00f2d.\u201d Mwen reyalize sa a son piman bouk, men p\u00e8son\u00e8lman mwen te tande plis pase yon moun di yon bagay ki sanble...e menm pi mal pase sa a.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Oke, swen adoptif pa travay nan fason sa a, e byenke mwen pa te yon fanatik l\u00e8 mwen te k\u00f2manse vwayaj swen adoptif mwen an, av\u00e8k tan mwen te kapab rekonesan pou pwosesis la.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e8 pitit gason nou an te vin viv av\u00e8k nou an premye, mwen te tande pale de paran byolojik yo nan men travay\u00e8 DCS la. Se pa opinyon li sou yo, men tou senpleman enf\u00f2masyon debaz mwen te bezwen yo nan l\u00f2d yo pran swen ti gason sa a dous, 3 mwa ki gen gwo bezwen medikal. Epi k\u00f2m mwen pa t &#039;konnen anpil bagay sou paran yo byolojik, fondamantalman ranpli nan espas vid yo epi te vini nan pw\u00f2p konklizyon mwen sou yo. Wi... jis oswa enjis (spoiler: mwen pral ale pi devan epi di ou ke li te konpl\u00e8tman enjis), se sa mwen te f\u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>Men, nan dezy\u00e8m odyans tribinal la, jij la deside ke si paran yo te vle reprann gad pitit gason yo, yo ta dwe ale nan tout randevou dokt\u00e8 li. Apre sa, mwen isit la di ou te gen yon anpil nan randevou te di pou ti gason sa a dous (se pa tout timoun, pa menm timoun ki gen anpil randevou medikal ... men pou li, te gen anpil).<\/p>\n<p>Mwen pa t vr\u00e8man rankontre paran yo anvan sa, kidonk on\u00e8tman mwen te p\u00e8 anpil. Mwen te tande istwa sou ki jan paran byolojik yo souvan fache kont paran adoptif yo paske yo konsidere yo k\u00f2m moun ki te pran pitit yo (ki kl\u00e8man se pa ka a, men konprann yo te vle yon moun blame). E mwen pa t anvi goumen. Byen opoze a, an reyalite.<\/p>\n<p>Men, premye randevou a, menm si g\u00f2ch, pa t pr\u00e8ske terib jan mwen te panse li ta ka. L\u00e8 sa a, randevou ki vin apre yo te vin pi fasil. Pa janm <em>fasil<\/em>\u2026Mwen p&#039;ap bay manti. Men, pi fasil ak anpil mwens ankonbran pase ou ta ka imajine. Mwen p\u00e8son\u00e8lman kw\u00e8 ke yon gwo pati nan li te ke atrav\u00e8 tout tan mwen te pase ak byom nan, mwen te vin reyalize ke li te jis yon moun tou. Li te renmen pitit gason l, menm jan mwen te renmen l, menmsi li pa t ka pran swen l.<\/p>\n<p>Li pa t &#039;mons sa ki mal mwen te kreye nan t\u00e8t mwen an. Li te f\u00e8 pi byen li te konnen ki jan f\u00e8 pou li. Ak on\u00e8tman, se tout sa nenp\u00f2t nan nou ka f\u00e8...se jis ke k\u00e8k nan nou gen plis op\u00f2tinite pou konprann sa timoun yo bezwen, osi byen ke resous, opsyon, ak sip\u00f2 yo bay.<\/p>\n<p>Se konsa, l\u00e8 yon timoun reyini ak paran byolojik, epi li bon ak an sante ak renmen, li se absoliman bagay sa a nou ta dwe bat bravo pou.<\/p>\n<p>Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t know about you, but I love a good \u201cunderdog\u201d story. You know what I\u2019m talking about, right? We\u2019ve all seen them (or have probably at least heard of them): \u201cRocky\u201d, \u201cHoosiers\u201d, and \u201cThe Hunger Games\u201d to name a few. Why, then, do we fail to cheer for the underdogs when it comes to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.1.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Kris&#039; Corner - Biological parents are the underdogs we should cheer for - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"The third post in Kris&#039; Corner, a blog aimed at tackling the misconceptions of foster care. 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