P\u00f2s sa a kalite pijon nan yon s\u00e8l anvan an nan ki mwen te pale sou chagren nou an ak vwayaj p\u00e8t. Apre sa, mwen p\u00e8son\u00e8lman pa panse ke sa a se yon bagay pale souvan ase nan mond adoptif la ... e sa se lide nan adoptif (ak adoptif) paran k ap ch\u00e8che terapi pou t\u00e8t yo.<\/p>\n
Mwen pa gen anpil bagay pou m di sou sa a pase pa gen okenn rezon ki f\u00e8 yo santi yo wont pou bezwen terapi. L\u00e8 w ap f\u00e8 paran, pran swen, ak jere bezwen medikal, emosyon\u00e8l ak konp\u00f2tman yon timoun ki soti nan kote difisil (yon timoun ki gen plis chans ap resevwa terapi t\u00e8t li), pwobableman ou pral gen yon s\u00f2t de ch\u00f2k segond\u00e8.<\/p>\n
Pif\u00f2, si se pa tout, paran adoptif yo ap lite ak ch\u00f2k segond\u00e8. Mwen p\u00e8son\u00e8lman pa janm rankontre yon paran adoptif ki pa t '; Sepandan, mwen te rankontre paran adoptif ki nan refi sou sa...men sa a se yon pwobl\u00e8m "yo" epi li pa neses\u00e8man sa m ap pale jodi a.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, k\u00e8k nan nou ta ka mande ki sa ki twomatik segond\u00e8? Se ch\u00f2k ki rive l\u00e8 w pwoche b\u00f2 kote yon moun ki te gen yon sot pase twomatik. Epi k\u00f2m yon paran adoptif (oswa adoptif), se jis youn nan bagay sa yo ki rive epi pa gen okenn fason rey\u00e8l pou evite li.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, mwen jis vle ankouraje paran yo jwenn \u00e8d.<\/p>\n
Omwen, gen yon gwoup sip\u00f2 sere oswa yon sist\u00e8m sip\u00f2 an plas ki ka koute lit ou san jijman, epi ofri mo ankourajan, kons\u00e8y ak sip\u00f2.<\/p>\n
Pwochen etap la, evidamman, ta ka ch\u00e8che yon terapis efikas ak itil.<\/p>\n
Mwen te ale nan terapi nan tan lontan an, epi mwen ap ch\u00e8che ale ank\u00f2. Li te pran anpil tan pou m reyalize ke pa gen okenn wont nan li. Pou yon tan long mwen te panse ke te gen yon bagay mal av\u00e8 m 'si mwen pa t' kapab pote pwa sa a poukont mwen...e mwen sisp\u00e8k se pout\u00e8t sa anpil l\u00f2t moun pa ch\u00e8che \u00e8d tou.<\/p>\n
Men, erezman, mwen te gen l\u00f2t paran adoptif nan lavi mwen ki te pataje sou bezwen yo pou \u00e8d... e yo se te moun ke mwen admire ak respekte nan mond swen adoptif la.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, atrav\u00e8 eksperyans yo, ak ankourajman yo, mwen reyalize si YO (moun mwen te panse, er\u00e8, te gen tout ansanm pou kont yo) te vle lonje k\u00f2 yo epi jwenn \u00e8d pwofesyon\u00e8l yo bezwen, L\u00e8 sa a, ki moun mwen ye pou jije yo pou sa. ?<\/p>\n
Jijman pa janm ede p\u00e8sonn, sitou moun k ap jije a.<\/p>\n
Mwen reyalize ke timoun adoptif yo bezwen paran yo pou yo an sante. Paran adoptif yo dwe an sante pou yo ka ede timoun yo geri anba ch\u00f2k yo. Epi souvan sa vle di ch\u00e8che \u00e8d.<\/p>\n
Mwen pral kraze li an t\u00e8m senp pou ou (ki ale pi lwen pase bezwen terapi):<\/p>\n
Ou pa f\u00e8 fanmi ou okenn fav\u00e8 l\u00e8 ou pa pran swen t\u00e8t ou.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, se rey\u00e8lman tout sa mwen gen pou di... jis yon ti diskou cheerleading "Rah-Rah" pou ankouraje w ke ou ka f\u00e8 sa, epi w ap f\u00e8 yon gwo travay, epi ou pa bezwen f\u00e8 li poukont ou paske \u00e8d disponib fasilman si w ap dispoze kontakte li.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
This post kind of dove-tails into the previous one in which I talked about our grief and loss journey. And I personally don\u2019t think this is something talked about often enough in the foster world\u2026and that is the idea of foster (and adoptive) parents seeking therapy for themselves. I don\u2019t have a whole lot to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20297","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\n