{"id":17740,"date":"2023-08-01T11:30:51","date_gmt":"2023-08-01T15:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=17740"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:01","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:01","slug":"kris-corner-sensory-input-and-the-fourth-of-july","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/ht\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-sensory-input-and-the-fourth-of-july\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwen Kris la: Antre sansory\u00e8l ak Katriy\u00e8m Jiy\u00e8 a"},"content":{"rendered":"
Alor sa pa neseserman spesifik pour Katriye Zilyet, byensir i absoliman ganny plas dan sa moman dan lannen, se sa rezon ki mon\u2019n enkli li ozordi. K\u00f2m nou te diskite anvan, timoun ki nan swen toujou gen ch\u00f2k. Menm si yo di w ke yo pa gen ch\u00f2k, tou senpleman yo retire nan fanmi byolojik se yon eksperyans twomatik ... k\u00e8lkeswa sa moun ta ka eseye reklame.<\/p>\n
Men, pwen mwen an se ke k\u00e8k timoun, k\u00f2m yon pati nan ch\u00f2k yo, gen sansibilite sansory\u00e8l, ki vle di yo anvi plis opinyon oswa yo pa f\u00e8 sa... donk ou w\u00e8 ank\u00f2 ki kote mwen prale ak p\u00f2s sa a? Mwen mansyone li kounye a paske gen anpil op\u00f2tinite pou k\u00e8k opinyon sansory\u00e8l grav sou Katriy\u00e8m Jiy\u00e8 a.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, l\u00e8 nou konsidere opinyon sansory\u00e8l, nou panse a senk sans nou yo: je, pran sant, tande, gou, ak manyen. K\u00e8k egzanp komen nan bagay timoun yo ch\u00e8che ak\/oswa evite nan sans sa yo se jan sa a (e mwen pral espesyalman enkli egzanp espesifik katriy\u00e8m jiy\u00e8):<\/p>\n
Koulye a, se pa tout timoun ki kl\u00e8man s\u00e8lman moun k ap ch\u00e8che sansory\u00e8l oswa s\u00e8lman moun ki evite sansory\u00e8l. Gen k\u00e8k timoun ki ka montre youn oswa l\u00f2t repons ki baze sou sitiyasyon yo oswa anviwonman yo. Sa a ka chanje selon fason yo deregleman, kijan yo kapab kontwole t\u00e8t yo, ansanm ak sitiyasyon an an jeneral... epi si ou pa t janm gen yon plasman akty\u00e8l lakay ou nan Katriy\u00e8m Jiy\u00e8 a, ou ta ka pa konnen ki jan. li pral reponn.<\/p>\n
Pou egzanp, gen k\u00e8k timoun ki pa gen difikilte nan anviw\u00f2nman yo abitye, men yo ka gen yon fizyon sansory\u00e8l nan kote ki gen anpil moun oswa ki pa abitye; pa egzanp, si w ap anba lavil pou fedatifis yo, sa pral gen anpil moun, pet\u00e8t panse nan ki jan pitit ou anjeneral jere kalite sitiyasyon sa a ak L\u00e8 sa a, ajoute nan tout l\u00f2t min yo potansy\u00e8l nan jou f\u00e8t la. Oswa pitit ou a ta ka ch\u00e8che oswa evite opinyon pou ede kalme t\u00e8t yo, l\u00e8 li n\u00f2malman pa f\u00e8 sa.<\/p>\n
Ki f\u00e8 nou tounen nan Katriy\u00e8m Jiy\u00e8. Koulye a, ak\u00f2de ... nenp\u00f2t jou ferye ka yon lit pou yon timoun ki soti nan kote difisil ... men jou ferye sa a an patikilye (mwen p\u00e8son\u00e8lman panse) gen anpil op\u00f2tinite varye pou dysregulation ke mwen jis vle mansyone sa a kounye a pou ou, k\u00f2m moun ki kapab ak byen- paran adoptif v\u00e8rs ou ye, ka sou A-Jw\u00e8t ou pou f\u00e8stivite kap vini yo.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, kisa ou ka f\u00e8 pou prepare? Oke, si li se premye ale-around ou ak yon timoun an patikilye epi yo pa rey\u00e8lman s\u00e8ten sa yo atann, mwen ta mete ba a ba epi toujou gen yon plan chape. Ki sa mwen vle di se pou w prepare pou w kite byen vit k\u00e8lkeswa kote w ye a si pitit ou a vr\u00e8man gen difikilte.<\/p>\n
Men, gen l\u00f2t fason ou ka prepare pou ou ka pa oblije kite kay la. K\u00f2m toujou, pale ak timoun nan alavans sou ki kote ou prale, sa w ap f\u00e8, sa ou ta ka w\u00e8 ak \/ oswa eksperyans, elatriye.<\/p>\n
Ak piggy-back sou fason yo prepare ... konsidere ke yo dak\u00f2 ak lef\u00e8t ke pitit ou a ta ka pa manje an sante pou jou sa a epi jis kite l ale. Mwen vle di, mwen pa neses\u00e8man di yon "sik san pou tout moun!" men plis sik pase n\u00f2mal ap pwobableman ap ok.<\/p>\n
E anfen, kite m ba w yon d\u00e8nye sijesyon: av\u00e8ti nenp\u00f2t l\u00f2t timoun lakay ou ke ou ta ka oblije kite si yon l\u00f2t timoun ap lite, pou w ka \u00e8spere ke ou ka lis sou nenp\u00f2t kriye ak griyen dan ke s\u00f2ti ta ka lak\u00f2z. Men, nan fen jounen an, s\u00e8lman ou konnen timoun nan ak sitiyasyon an epi li ka konnen ki sa ki ta \/ ta ka pi bon; si plante grenn sa a ta ka f\u00e8 bagay sa yo vin pi mal, L\u00e8 sa a, evidamman pa f\u00e8 li!<\/p>\n
Se konsa, olye pou yo bay lis tout posiblite yo (paske sa pa ta posib de tout fason), mwen tou senpleman ba ou yon pwen lansman pou ede ou k\u00f2manse reflechi sou bagay yo ANVAN ou rive nan yon sware nan fedatifis kote pitit ou a ap gen yon mons. fizyon epi w ap kenbe san prepare.<\/p>\n
Jis konnen ke jou ferye sa a pa ta ka ditou sa ou espere (oswa neses\u00e8man vle) men ou ka mete bezwen timoun nan devan pw\u00f2p ou a pou jou\/ev\u00e8nman sa a. Di, pou egzanp, ou rey\u00e8lman renmen fedatifis ak sa a se yon s\u00e8l piki ou chak ane yo w\u00e8 yon ekspozisyon an p\u00e8s\u00f2n. Men, pitit adoptif ou a ranv\u00e8se kouv\u00e8ti li apre premye "boom" la, kidonk, ou bezwen pake epi kite anvan li totalman kraze (oswa pandan l ap defonse). Jis pare pou w f\u00e8 sa... seryezman, di t\u00e8t ou davans se sa w ap gen pou w f\u00e8...men sezi ou sezi si, an reyalite, ou pa fini bezwen f\u00e8 sa.<\/p>\n
Anba liy: ou pa pral kenbe inyorans! Ou gen sa a epi li pral gwo ... menm si li pa sanble ak nenp\u00f2t katriy\u00e8m Jiy\u00e8 nan tan lontan ou.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
So this isn\u2019t necessarily Fourth of July specific, although it absolutely has its place at this time of year, which is why I\u2019m including it now. As we\u2019ve discussed before, kids in care always have trauma. Even if you\u2019re told that they don\u2019t have trauma, simply being removed from biological family is a traumatic experience\u2026regardless […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10,21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17740","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner","category-news"],"yoast_head":"\n