Ki pwobl\u00e8m yo genyen? (Akty\u00e8lman, li souvan mwens dou...anjeneral plis tankou "Kisa ki mal ak yo?")<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nLis la kontinye ak sou.<\/p>\n
Men, se pa kesyon ou ta n\u00f2malman mande sou nenp\u00f2t l\u00f2t moun, kidonk poukisa moun santi li apwopriye pou yo fouye nan zaf\u00e8 p\u00e8son\u00e8l yon timoun ki jis f\u00e8 eksperyans ch\u00f2k nan yo te retire nan fanmi byolojik li?<\/p>\n
Li pa apwopriye... tout tan.<\/p>\n
Li pa akseptab...tout tan.<\/p>\n
Epi antanke paran adoptif, yon pati nan travay nou se pwoteje timoun yo, pwoteje vi prive yo, epi pwoteje istwa yo... espesyalman kont z\u00f2r\u00e8y ak bouch moun ki pa gen okenn enter\u00e8 pou ede timoun nan. Souvan yo se tou senpleman tripotay oswa moun ki deja gen nan t\u00e8t yo ki jan chak timoun adoptif ye, ak ki jan chak sitiyasyon ye, kidonk yo jis ap ch\u00e8che gaz pou plis opinyon partial yo ... oswa yo vle santi yo tankou yo yon jan kanmenm. "nan konnen".<\/p>\n
Oswa pi move nan tout, yo jis vle konnen pousy\u00e8 t\u00e8 a sou timoun p\u00f2v sa a. Se biznis timoun nan ak biznis timoun nan s\u00e8lman; se pa pou okenn l\u00f2t moun pataje.<\/p>\n
Kounye a\u2026si w se yon paran adoptif epi ou pataje tw\u00f2p (oswa si w konnen yon paran adoptif epi w poze kesyon sa yo)\u2026pa dezespwa. Li pa janm tw\u00f2 ta pou f\u00e8 bagay yo byen... oswa omwen, kenbe bouch ou f\u00e8men pou pi devan. Paske mwen pral lib adm\u00e8t ke nan k\u00f2mansman vwayaj nou an, mwen te terib nan pwoteje timoun yo nan fason sa a.<\/p>\n
E poukisa se sa? Rezon ki f\u00e8 la te de fwa: li pa janm rey\u00e8lman te rive m 'ke mwen ta dwe kenbe enf\u00f2masyon an pou t\u00e8t mwen, epi tou ak\u00f2z fakt\u00e8 a ch\u00f2k. Se pa ke mwen t ap eseye choke l\u00f2t moun, men mwen menm, mwen te choke nan sa m t ap tande ak sa timoun yo te f\u00e8 eksperyans epi mwen pa t ka f\u00e8men sou sa.<\/p>\n
Wi...sa f\u00e8 m mal kounye a, men mwen pa t konnen sa m pa t konnen. Men, KOUNYE A mwen konnen... ki se egzakteman poukisa mwen pataje sa a av\u00e8k ou, pou ke \u00e8spere ke ou pral evite menm move etap yo.<\/p>\n
Apre sa, mwen pral di ke erezman nou byen vit aprann ke detay yo pa bezwen pataje paske yo pa te detay nou yo pataje; menm si nou te pran swen timoun yo, nou te, plis oswa mwens, spectateurs nan ev\u00e8nman an. E ke moun yo te poze kesyon yo te jis yo te curieux.<\/p>\n
Se konsa, kounye a ke mwen te potansy\u00e8lman kondane ou yon ti kras, mwen vle ba ou k\u00e8k \u00e8d pou moman sa yo l\u00e8 moun ap poze kesyon ki pa apwopriye sou timoun ki nan swen ou yo ... paske menm si ou VLE di "Sa pa nan anyen pou ou. \u201d Mwen ta seryezman doute ke pif\u00f2 nan nou ta, menmsi se nan dom\u00e8n dwa nou genyen pou nou f\u00e8 sa pou pwoteje timoun yo.<\/p>\n
Olye de sa, men k\u00e8k sijesyon pou konsidere epi mete nan p\u00f2ch d\u00e8y\u00e8 ou pou l\u00e8 op\u00f2tinite a rive:<\/p>\n
Poukisa yo te retire li?<\/p>\n
F\u00e8 vag, vag, vag. On\u00e8tman, pwobableman ou pa konnen anpil bagay, espesyalman byen bon\u00e8 nan yon ka epi yo nan l\u00f2d yo pa penti fanmi byolojik la nan yon limy\u00e8 p\u00f2v, ou ka tou senpleman ak succinctly eksplike ak yon bagay tankou sa a, "Nou pa konnen anpil detay nan pwen sa a, men pou kounye a li pral rete av\u00e8k nou epi n ap ba li pi bon swen nou kapab... epi l\u00e8 yon bagay chanje ak plan akty\u00e8l la, FCM nou an ap f\u00e8 nou konnen.\u201d<\/p>\n
Yon repons konsa ka f\u00e8men bouch yon Nellie nosy byen vit. Epi li ka aplikab tou pou kesyon tankou "Konbyen tan li pral rete?", "Konbyen tan li te pran swen?", ak "Kisa ki mal nan li?"<\/p>\n
L\u00e8 yo mande w si w ap adopte l (paske Y ap mande w), ou ka bay yon repons tankou sa a, "Se pa s\u00e8lman nou ki ta patisipe nan desizyon sa a... e kounye a plan an se reyinifikasyon, ki nou ap chwazi sip\u00f2te. Men, li ka rete toutotan li bezwen."<\/p>\n
Natir\u00e8lman, gen anpil kesyon ki ta ka vin wout ou; sa yo se jis yon koup egzanp nan k\u00e8k nan yo menm ki pi komen. Men, liy anba a: gen yon repons nan pare a (nan pi bon nan kapasite ou) ki pwoteje timoun nan, paran li yo ak istwa yo. Menm ale byen lwen pou w mande t\u00e8t ou anvan ou reponn: \u00e8ske repons sa a gen plis enf\u00f2masyon sou fason yo pral w\u00e8 m oswa timoun nan? Men, si se sou ou, L\u00e8 sa a, repons lan ta ka bezwen ajiste.<\/p>\n
Padon si k\u00f2mant\u00e8 sa f\u00e8 yon ti kras mal...men se nou menm ki antre nan istwa yo, kidonk li depann de yo ak ki moun ak konbyen yo chwazi pataje.<\/p>\n
Epi pou adousi pike k\u00f2mant\u00e8 ki pi wo a mwen an yon ti jan... jis konnen ke ak ef\u00f2 w ap pwoteje vi prive timoun ki pran swen w yo, yo ka santi yon sans sekirite ak sekirite lakay ou, ki ka ede mennen nan gerizon yo.<\/p>\n
Sens\u00e8man,<\/p>\n
Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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