{"id":9703,"date":"2021-08-19T19:50:17","date_gmt":"2021-08-19T19:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9703"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:52","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:52","slug":"kris-corner-working-through-death-and-a-funeral","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/fr\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-working-through-death-and-a-funeral\/","title":{"rendered":"Le coin de Kris - Travailler \u00e0 travers la mort et un enterrement"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Alors, parlons un instant des enfants des endroits difficiles confront\u00e9s \u00e0 la mort. De toute \u00e9vidence, tout enfant en famille d&#039;accueil a subi une perte\u2026 simplement en raison du fait qu&#039;il n&#039;est plus avec sa famille biologique. Le retrait, en soi, est une perte et c&#039;est traumatisant, m\u00eame si la situation n&#039;\u00e9tait pas saine ou s\u00e9curitaire.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">La diff\u00e9rence est que pour un placement en institution, la perte est g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement celle d&#039;une personne encore en vie. Ugh\u2026 laissez cela p\u00e9n\u00e9trer.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Donc, \u00e0 cause de cela, la mort est potentiellement tr\u00e8s difficile \u00e0 g\u00e9rer car c&#039;est une autre perte pour un enfant qui a d\u00e9j\u00e0 subi une grande perte. Ce que je vous encourage \u00e0 garder \u00e0 l&#039;esprit, c&#039;est que non seulement la mort peut entra\u00eener le chagrin de cette perte elle-m\u00eame, mais elle peut \u00e9galement devenir un d\u00e9clencheur\u2026 un rappel de toutes les autres pertes qu&#039;il a subies au cours de sa vie. Cela dit, le chagrin d&#039;un d\u00e9c\u00e8s est \u00e9videmment diff\u00e9rent du chagrin de la perte de personnes encore en vie. Mais c&#039;est du chagrin tout de m\u00eame. Et du fait que les enfants en famille d&#039;accueil, ou ceux qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 adopt\u00e9s, ont\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">&quot;<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">deux familles \u00bb, cela augmente de fa\u00e7on exponentielle les chances que l&#039;enfant subisse un d\u00e9c\u00e8s et une perte.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00c9noncer l&#039;\u00e9vidence ici, mais il peut s&#039;agir de la famille biologique, de la famille d&#039;accueil ou d&#039;adoption, ou d&#039;un ami de la famille. Mais un d\u00e9c\u00e8s surviendra \u00e0 un moment donn\u00e9 et la fa\u00e7on dont vous l&#039;aborderez et le g\u00e9rerez aura un impact sur la fa\u00e7on dont l&#039;enfant est capable de naviguer.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Pendant que mon fils \u00e9tait en famille d&#039;accueil, cela n&#039;a jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 un probl\u00e8me pour nous. Il avait deux ans au moment de l&#039;adoption et avant cela, nous avons eu un enterrement familial, qui a eu lieu alors qu&#039;il \u00e9tait b\u00e9b\u00e9. Mais nous \u00e9tions en eaux nouvelles il y a quelques mois lorsque j&#039;ai d\u00fb lui annoncer le d\u00e9c\u00e8s d&#039;un de nos voisins.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Elle luttait contre le cancer depuis un an et demi, et il avait vu les changements en elle (la t\u00eate chauve \u00e9tait son plus grand indice, bien s\u00fbr), mais il n&#039;\u00e9tait pas tout \u00e0 fait certain de ce qui se passait. J&#039;ai essay\u00e9, \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0, de garder les choses aussi vagues que possible et de ne r\u00e9pondre qu&#039;aux questions qu&#039;il avait; nous avons parl\u00e9 du cancer et que parfois il rendait les gens tr\u00e8s malades et parfois en mourait. Mais ce n&#039;est pas parce que quelqu&#039;un avait un cancer qu&#039;il mourrait.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Quelques semaines avant que \u00e7a n&#039;arrive, je savais que \u00e7a allait arriver. Mais je ne l&#039;ai pas pr\u00e9par\u00e9. Je ne savais pas quoi faire ou dire et donc je ne l&#039;ai tout simplement pas fait ; avec le recul, probablement pas la meilleure approche. Il n&#039;\u00e9tait pas tr\u00e8s proche d&#039;elle, mais comme elle habitait de l&#039;autre c\u00f4t\u00e9 de la rue, ils se voyaient souvent et se saluaient. Connaissant ses restrictions alimentaires particuli\u00e8res, elle lui achetait toujours un gros sac de bonbons sp\u00e9ciaux \u00e0 Halloween. Et elle gardait sous la main une r\u00e9serve de ventouses sp\u00e9ciales rien que pour lui quand il viendrait sonner chez elle et en demanderait une. Ainsi, m\u00eame s&#039;ils n&#039;\u00e9taient pas proches, il avait une place sp\u00e9ciale dans son c\u0153ur, et elle dans le sien.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Quand je lui ai dit qu&#039;elle \u00e9tait morte, sa premi\u00e8re r\u00e9action a \u00e9t\u00e9 plut\u00f4t nonchalante. Mais une fois que j&#039;ai appris les arrangements fun\u00e9raires et les visites, et que j&#039;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 le pr\u00e9parer pour cela, il est devenu plus en col\u00e8re; Je savais qu&#039;il l&#039;avait trait\u00e9 mais j&#039;avais du mal \u00e0 lui faire verbaliser ses sentiments (ce n&#039;est pas son point fort de toute fa\u00e7on, et le chagrin ne lui rendait pas service). Pendant que nous parlions, j&#039;ai pu lui faire comprendre qu&#039;il \u00e9tait en col\u00e8re parce qu&#039;elle n&#039;avait plus de ventouses depuis un moment\u2026 Je savais que c&#039;\u00e9tait parce qu&#039;elle \u00e9tait malade et que l&#039;achat de ventouses sp\u00e9ciales n&#039;\u00e9tait d\u00e9finitivement pas une priorit\u00e9.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Mais pour lui, c&#039;\u00e9tait important et c&#039;\u00e9tait la fa\u00e7on dont ils s&#039;\u00e9taient connect\u00e9s\u2026 et dans son esprit, elle l&#039;avait clairement laiss\u00e9 tomber. Il en a parl\u00e9 plusieurs fois au cours des deux jours suivants jusqu&#039;\u00e0 ce que je puisse lui faire comprendre qu&#039;elle avait \u00e9t\u00e9 malade et qu&#039;elle voulait lui acheter des ventouses mais qu&#039;elle ne pouvait tout simplement pas aller au magasin parce qu&#039;elle \u00e9tait trop malade. \u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0, il s&#039;est adouci et n&#039;en a plus parl\u00e9.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Quand je lui ai dit que nous allions \u00e0 une visite, avant les fun\u00e9railles (nous n&#039;avons pas assist\u00e9 aux fun\u00e9railles elles-m\u00eames\u2026 j&#039;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 qu&#039;on m&#039;avait donn\u00e9 l&#039;occasion de faire des petits pas avec lui \u00e0 ce sujet, alors j&#039;allais faire juste que). J&#039;ai expliqu\u00e9 ce que c&#039;\u00e9tait, mais il \u00e9tait cat\u00e9gorique, il ne voulait pas vraiment y aller. La plupart de cette r\u00e9ponse, je suppose, \u00e9tait parce qu&#039;il aime toujours \u00eatre &quot;au courant&quot; et juste parce que j&#039;explique ce qui va se passer, cela ne se traduit pas toujours par lui &quot;sachant\/comprenant\/imaginant&quot; ce qui se passera vraiment et son anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 prend le dessus.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Mais apr\u00e8s plusieurs conversations sur ce que ce serait, et apr\u00e8s que j&#039;aie expliqu\u00e9 qu&#039;il y aurait beaucoup de photos \u00e0 regarder, et que son mari et ses filles seraient l\u00e0, il a finalement accept\u00e9 d&#039;y aller.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Naturellement, il ne voulait pas passer par la ligne, et je ne l&#039;ai pas fait. Il voulait regarder les photos, et il voulait s&#039;asseoir sur le canap\u00e9 qui \u00e9tait aussi pr\u00e8s du cercueil que possible, mais toujours \u00e0 plusieurs m\u00e8tres de distance.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Et puis il a tout repris.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Il regardait les gens, il regardait les fleurs, il posait beaucoup de questions, comme, en d\u00e9signant le cercueil,<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0&quot;<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">Vont-ils fermer cette \u00e9coutille quand ils l&#039;enterreront ?\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Heureusement, ce n&#039;\u00e9tait pas assez fort pour que quelqu&#039;un d&#039;autre puisse l&#039;entendre, mais quand vous \u00eates nouveau dans la mort et toutes les formalit\u00e9s et rituels que nous avons, vous allez probablement avoir des questions. Je savais que cela ne faisait que le pr\u00e9parer \u00e0 une exp\u00e9rience plus proche de la mort avec la mort, comme quelqu&#039;un de la famille ou quelqu&#039;un qu&#039;il connaissait bien.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Et puis c&#039;est sur le chemin du retour que le flot de questions est vraiment venu. Notre famille, personnellement, croit au paradis et il avait donc de nombreuses questions sur la fa\u00e7on dont notre voisin pouvait \u00ab\u00eatre allong\u00e9 dans cette bo\u00eete et \u00eatre au paradis en m\u00eame temps\u00bb.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Mais la chose qui m&#039;a sembl\u00e9 la plus \u00e9vidente, alors qu&#039;il posait des questions, c&#039;\u00e9tait ceci : Est-ce que TU vas mourir un jour, maman ? Vas-tu me quitter pour toujours ?<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Et cela, mes amis, a \u00e9t\u00e9 la chose la plus difficile \u00e0 surmonter pour nous deux.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Pour un enfant qui a subi de grandes blessures et pertes et qui s&#039;est battu pour les attachements qu&#039;il a\u2026 m\u00eame le style d&#039;attachement anxieux qu&#039;il a\u2026 la pens\u00e9e de perdre sa famille \u00e9tait suffisante pour nous induire en erreur tous les deux. Inutile de dire que les larmes coulaient dans la voiture cet apr\u00e8s-midi-l\u00e0.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Mais, comme il a tendance \u00e0 le faire, il n&#039;a pas mentionn\u00e9 sa mort ni celle de qui que ce soit depuis ce jour. Je sais que \u00e7a tourne encore dans sa t\u00eate\u2026 alors que nous voyons les voisins et le nouveau chiot qu&#039;ils ont eu pour essayer de trouver un peu de joie dans leur vie\u2026 mais il ne mentionne jamais sa mort.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Il est \u00ab dans sa t\u00eate \u00bb beaucoup de choses, et depuis 7 ans qu&#039;il est avec nous, on n&#039;arrive pas toujours \u00e0 le faire sortir.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">J&#039;ai essay\u00e9 de \u00ab l&#039;app\u00e2ter \u00bb en lui demandant s&#039;il pensait \u00e0 quelqu&#039;un ou s&#039;il avait des questions sur des choses qu&#039;il voulait poser ou discuter. Mais la r\u00e9ponse est toujours non.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Donc, alors que j&#039;attends qu&#039;il soit pr\u00eat \u00e0 traiter compl\u00e8tement cela\u2026 et je sais que le moment viendra \u00e0 un moment donn\u00e9\u2026 je me tiens pr\u00eat \u00e0 ramasser les morceaux. Que ce soit le traitement de sa mort ou de celle de quelqu&#039;un d&#039;autre\u2026 la mort vient toujours et \u00e0 un moment donn\u00e9, elle sera tr\u00e8s proche. Et il devra traiter enti\u00e8rement tout cela.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Pour un enfant des endroits difficiles, le traitement de la mort et de la perte peut sembler diff\u00e9rent de celui d&#039;une personne qui n&#039;a pas subi de traumatisme grave. Et ce n&#039;est pas grave\u2026 tant que nous, les parents, les aidants, les soignants savons et comprenons cela\u2026 et donnons du temps, de l&#039;espace et de la marge \u00e0 l&#039;enfant. Et sois juste pr\u00eat quand il le sera.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Sinc\u00e8rement,<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Kris<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So,\u00a0let\u2019s talk for a minute about kids from hard places\u00a0dealing with death.\u00a0Clearly, any child in foster care has experienced loss\u2026simply by virtue of the fact that he is no longer with his biological family. 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