{"id":9683,"date":"2021-08-05T21:15:42","date_gmt":"2021-08-05T21:15:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9683"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:52","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:52","slug":"considering-foster-care-placement-options","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/fr\/resources\/news-library\/considering-foster-care-placement-options\/","title":{"rendered":"Consid\u00e9rer les options de placement en famille d'accueil"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ainsi, certains d'entre vous qui sont nouveaux dans le placement en famille d'accueil, ou qui envisagent simplement de le faire, se demandent peut-\u00eatre comment d\u00e9cider du type de placement \u00e0 effectuer. Honn\u00eatement, cela d\u00e9pend souvent de votre zone de confort, de votre exp\u00e9rience et de votre espace disponible. Mais il y a bien d\u2019autres \u00e9l\u00e9ments qui peuvent jouer un r\u00f4le dans une d\u00e9cision\u2026 des choses que vous n\u2019aviez jamais anticip\u00e9es et qui pourraient conduire \u00e0 un meilleur ajustement que vous n\u2019auriez jamais imagin\u00e9.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Honn\u00eatement, lorsque nous avons commenc\u00e9 notre parcours en famille d'accueil, nous voulions accueillir des adolescents. Nous avions tous les deux travaill\u00e9 dans le minist\u00e8re au lyc\u00e9e et savions \u00e0 quel point les adolescents pouvaient \u00eatre une joie et un plaisir. Souvent, ils ont une mauvaise r\u00e9putation, mais ils sont tr\u00e8s amusants\u2026 et nous savions qu'il y avait un \u00e9norme besoin de foyers pour accueillir des adolescents\u00a0; au fait, au cas o\u00f9 quelqu'un serait curieux, il y a<\/span>\u00a0TOUJOURS\u00a0<\/span>un \u00e9norme besoin de foyers pr\u00eats \u00e0 accueillir des adolescents.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Mais personnellement, nous savions que nos gar\u00e7ons biologiques entraient tout juste dans l\u2019adolescence et nous ne voulions pas amener des enfants qui modifieraient l\u2019ordre de naissance. Je sais que pour certains d'entre vous, cela semble idiot, et beaucoup de gens confondent l'ordre de naissance et ce n'est pas un probl\u00e8me, mais c'\u00e9tait notre pr\u00e9f\u00e9rence personnelle.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

De plus, en m\u00eame temps, j\u2019avais sept ans d\u2019exp\u00e9rience dans le domaine pr\u00e9scolaire et je me sentais \u00e9galement tr\u00e8s \u00e0 l\u2019aise avec cette tranche d\u2019\u00e2ge. Donc, quand nous avons initialement dit que nous prendrions deux enfants \u00e2g\u00e9s de 2 \u00e0 4 ans, ce serait certainement mon pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9.<\/span>. Plus\u00a0<\/span>cela garantissait \u00e9galement que nous n'aurions pas \u00e0 nous soucier de les emmener \u00e0 l'\u00e9cole, du moins au d\u00e9but, et cela semblait la meilleure solution pour notre famille.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Et c\u2019est ainsi que nous avons en quelque sorte d\u00e9fini nos param\u00e8tres au d\u00e9part. Pour diverses raisons, d'autres familles ne voudraient jamais d'un enfant d'\u00e2ge pr\u00e9scolaire\u2026 elles voudraient seulement un enfant d'\u00e2ge scolaire. Ou je veux seulement un b\u00e9b\u00e9.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

En apart\u00e9,<\/span>\u00a0nous savions pertinemment que nous ne voulions PAS d\u2019un b\u00e9b\u00e9.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Nous aimons bien dormir, alors nous avons fait signe d'introduire ce genre de train fou dans la maison. Cependant, une fois que nous avons vu combien de temps nous attendions et avons d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d\u2019ouvrir un peu nos param\u00e8tres, au lieu de vieillir, nous sommes devenus plus jeunes\u2026 et nous nous sommes retrouv\u00e9s avec un enfant de trois mois.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Pour notre plus grand plaisir, il a dormi toute la nuit, mais comme il avait un retard de croissance et avait besoin de manger toutes les trois heures, nous avons d\u00fb r\u00e9gler des alarmes pour pouvoir le r\u00e9veiller et le nourrir \u00e0 temps\u2026 des t\u00e9t\u00e9es qui prenaient une heure chacune et qui il a dormi. Donc au moins IL \u00e9tait bien repos\u00e9.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Je plaisante (en quelque sorte), b<\/span>mais s\u00e9rieusement\u2026 m\u00eame si nous ne pouvions pas le voir \u00e0 l'\u00e9poque, une fois que nous sommes entr\u00e9s dans une routine, il s'est vraiment bien int\u00e9gr\u00e9 \u00e0 notre famille\u2026 et c'\u00e9tait compl\u00e8tement inattendu. Mes gar\u00e7ons plus \u00e2g\u00e9s \u00e9tudiaient \u00e0 la maison et \u00e9taient assez vieux pour avoir leur travail et la possibilit\u00e9 de travailler de mani\u00e8re ind\u00e9pendante ; tr\u00e8s peu de travail \u00e0 la cuill\u00e8re de ma part, ne serait-ce que parce que je n'avais pas le temps.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Et cela a fini par \u00eatre une b\u00e9n\u00e9diction pour nous tous, car les gar\u00e7ons plus \u00e2g\u00e9s \u00e9taient bien mieux pr\u00e9par\u00e9s pour le lyc\u00e9e et l\u2019universit\u00e9 qu\u2019ils ne l\u2019auraient \u00e9t\u00e9 autrement.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Donc, ce que je veux dire en vous disant tout cela, c'est que vous pouvez avoir en t\u00eate ce qui conviendrait le mieux, et vous pourriez tr\u00e8s bien avoir raison. Mais il existe d\u2019autres possibilit\u00e9s qui pourraient \u00e9galement tr\u00e8s bien convenir, en particulier celles que vous n\u2019envisageriez m\u00eame jamais.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sur le papier, un nourrisson m\u00e9dicalement fragile et en retard de croissance ne semblait pas s'int\u00e9grer bien dans notre famille. Mais nous ne savions pas que nous avions compl\u00e8tement tort.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ayez donc vos param\u00e8tres, votre vision, votre objectif et votre id\u00e9e de ce que serait le placement parfait, mais lorsqu'on vous pr\u00e9sente quelque chose en dehors de cela, essayez de ne pas le rejeter imm\u00e9diatement. Pensez \u00e0 essayer, car vous ne savez jamais o\u00f9 cela pourrait vous mener.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sinc\u00e8rement,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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