{"id":9669,"date":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","date_gmt":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9669"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:52","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:52","slug":"kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/fr\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades\/","title":{"rendered":"Coin de Kris - Pats, louanges et distinctions"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alors voici le probl\u00e8me\u00a0: si vous recherchez beaucoup de tapes dans le dos, d'\u00e9loges et de distinctions, \u00eatre parent d'accueil (ou n'importe quel emploi dans le travail social, en fait) n'est peut-\u00eatre pas pour vous.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Pour \u00eatre honn\u00eate, ce n\u2019est pas que personne ne voit ce que vous faites ou que votre temps, votre \u00e9nergie et vos efforts ne sont pas remarqu\u00e9s\u2026 mais c\u2019est que les gens qui le remarquent sont souvent aussi d\u00e9pass\u00e9s que vous et honn\u00eatement, ils ne prennent pas le temps de vous le dire. .<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Ayez l\u2019assurance que vous faites du bon travail et supposez que les autres le remarquent. Vous pouvez \u00eatre rassur\u00e9 de savoir que vous entendrez parler \u00e0 quelqu'un s'il constate qu'il y a un probl\u00e8me\u00a0; c'est d\u00e9finitivement un cas de \u00ab pas de nouvelles, bonne nouvelle \u00bb.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Cela ne veut pas dire que vous ne serez jamais reconnu\u2026 vous le serez certainement (et je dois dire que le Bureau des enfants est vraiment fabuleux pour remercier leurs parents adoptifs !), mais pas \u00e0 chaque fois que vous faites quelque chose de vraiment g\u00e9nial. C'est un peu comme la vie en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral, non ?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Le fait est que\u2026 la protection de l\u2019enfant dont vous avez la garde est ce qui compte vraiment et vous, en tant que parent adoptif, continuez, continuez \u00e0 faire et continuez \u00e0 d\u00e9fendre les int\u00e9r\u00eats de l\u2019enfant.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Un couple de parents d'accueil l'a dit ainsi\u00a0:<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u00ab Vous vous sentirez n\u00e9glig\u00e9, sous-estim\u00e9 et parfois trait\u00e9 comme si vous n\u2019en aviez aucune id\u00e9e. Continuez \u00e0 vous battre pour les enfants malgr\u00e9 cela.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u00ab Vous ferez BEAUCOUP de plaidoyer. Avant, j'\u00e9tais un jeu d'enfant beaucoup plus gros et maintenant je suis assez vocal et je peux faire valoir ma cause sans fondre en larmes (g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement).<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Maintenant, si vous n'\u00eates pas typiquement \u00e9motif, ce dernier commentaire peut pr\u00eater \u00e0 confusion\u2026 mais l'essentiel est qu'il peut devenir \u00e9motif, parce que ces enfants deviennent \u00ab les n\u00f4tres \u00bb. Nous faisons pression en leur nom et nous d\u00e9fendons pour eux parce que quelqu'un en a besoin. Et personne ne les conna\u00eet comme nous\u2026 parfois m\u00eame pas leurs familles biologiques.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Et honn\u00eatement, c\u2019est exactement ce pour quoi nous nous sommes engag\u00e9s \u00e0 faire. Si vous avez des enfants biologiques, \u00e0 quelle fr\u00e9quence quelqu\u2019un vous dit-il que vous faites un travail formidable\u00a0? Pas aussi souvent qu\u2019on en entend parler lorsqu\u2019il y a un probl\u00e8me, n\u2019est-ce pas\u00a0?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Au travail, \u00eates-vous souvent f\u00e9licit\u00e9 pour votre souci du d\u00e9tail ou est-il plus probable que vous continuiez \u00e0 rouler le nez dans la meule, mais lorsqu'un probl\u00e8me survient, c'est \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0 que quelqu'un vous parle de la qualit\u00e9 de votre travail ?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Maintenant\u2026 j'esp\u00e8re que je me trompe et que vous \u00eates combl\u00e9 d'\u00e9loges pour votre r\u00f4le parental exceptionnel et vos performances professionnelles exceptionnelles, mais le plus souvent, je pense que c'est le contraire. Non pas que les compliments NE viennent PAS\u2026 ils le font certainement. Mais ce n\u2019est peut-\u00eatre pas aussi souvent que nous le souhaiterions ou que nous pensons qu\u2019ils sont justifi\u00e9s.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Le fait est que le placement familial n\u2019est pas diff\u00e9rent de tout ce que vous faites dans la vie. Si vous \u00eates dans les tranch\u00e9es et que vous avez un impact sur la vie d'un enfant, sachez simplement que changer la trajectoire de vie de l'enfant pour le mieux est le plus grand et le meilleur \u00e9loge que vous puissiez recevoir.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Sinc\u00e8rement,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So\u00a0here\u2019s the thing: if you are looking for lots of pats on the back or praise and accolades, being a foster parent (or any job in social work, actually) might not be for you.\u00a0 \u00a0To be fair, it\u2019s not that no one sees what you do or that your time, energy and effort are not […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9669","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"\nKris' Corner- Pats, Praise & Accolades - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/fr\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kris' Corner- Pats, Praise & Accolades - 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