{"id":9015,"date":"2020-12-10T20:41:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-10T20:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9015"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:21","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:21","slug":"kris-corner-christmas-in-foster-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/fr\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-christmas-in-foster-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris&#039; Corner \u2013 No\u00ebl en famille d&#039;accueil"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Je sais que dans un article pr\u00e9c\u00e9dent, j&#039;ai discut\u00e9 de la fa\u00e7on de passer les vacances avec mes parents biologiques. Maintenant, j&#039;aimerais en fait exprimer quelques r\u00e9flexions concernant les vacances en ce qui concerne les enfants plac\u00e9s eux-m\u00eames.<\/p>\n<p>Cette ann\u00e9e, \u00e9tant donn\u00e9 ce qu\u2019elle est, nous n\u2019aurons peut-\u00eatre pas tous les grandes r\u00e9unions de famille que nous avons eues dans le pass\u00e9. Donc, ce n\u2019est peut-\u00eatre pas vraiment un probl\u00e8me. Cependant, je vais aborder cette question comme s&#039;il s&#039;agissait d&#039;une ann\u00e9e typique.<\/p>\n<p>Les vacances sont difficiles pour beaucoup de gens, mais surtout pour les enfants plac\u00e9s. Ils ne sont pas avec leur famille biologique. Pouvez-vous m\u00eame imaginer ce que cela doit ressentir\u2026 d&#039;\u00eatre loin du confort de la maison\u00a0? Comme nous l&#039;avons mentionn\u00e9 pr\u00e9c\u00e9demment, s&#039;\u00e9loigner de ce qui est normal est tr\u00e8s troublant et bouleversant, m\u00eame si cette normalit\u00e9 n&#039;est pas saine.<\/p>\n<p>Pour aggraver les choses, les enfants plac\u00e9s vivent peut-\u00eatre avec une famille qui ne sait pas quoi faire en ce qui concerne les vacances. La famille d&#039;accueil pourrait penser \u00e0 des choses telles que\u00a0:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Devons-nous inclure les enfants adoptifs dans les photos de famille\u00a0?<\/li>\n<li>Leur achetons-nous le m\u00eame nombre de cadeaux que nos enfants biologiques ?<\/li>\n<li>D\u00e9pensons-nous le m\u00eame montant pour chaque enfant accueilli ?<\/li>\n<li>Devons-nous d\u00e9penser notre propre argent au-del\u00e0 de ce que le DCS et le Bureau de l&#039;enfance nous remboursent\u00a0?<\/li>\n<li>Comment notre famille \u00e9largie g\u00e8re-t-elle l\u2019achat de cadeaux (et toutes les autres \u00ab activit\u00e9s de vacances \u00bb)\u00a0?<\/li>\n<li>Est-il acceptable que notre famille \u00e9largie ach\u00e8te des cadeaux pour nos enfants biologiques, mais pas pour nos enfants adoptifs\u00a0?<\/li>\n<li>Ou peuvent-ils \u00e9videmment \u00ab faire des \u00e9conomies \u00bb sur les enfants plac\u00e9s en famille d&#039;accueil \u00ab parce que cela n&#039;a pas d&#039;importance\u2026 ce ne sont pas vraiment nos enfants \u00bb ?<\/li>\n<li>Comment g\u00e9rer toutes ces choses (et bien plus encore)\u00a0?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>En lisant ces questions, vous pouvez probablement deviner ce que je vais dire ensuite. Et si vous ne pouvez pas, vous \u00eates peut-\u00eatre nouveau sur mon blog.<\/p>\n<p>Les enfants dont vous avez la garde doivent \u00eatre trait\u00e9s comme s\u2019ils \u00e9taient vos enfants. Parce qu&#039;au moins pendant cette p\u00e9riode\u2026 ce sont vos enfants. Ils doivent \u00eatre trait\u00e9s avec le m\u00eame amour, le m\u00eame soin, la m\u00eame compassion et le m\u00eame respect que tout enfant qui est l\u00e9galement le v\u00f4tre pour toujours. Ainsi, si vous d\u00e9pensez un certain montant pour chaque enfant, ce montant devrait \u00e9galement \u00eatre d\u00e9pens\u00e9 pour l\u2019enfant plac\u00e9 en famille d\u2019accueil. Cela peut signifier d\u00e9penser de votre poche en cadeaux (au-del\u00e0 de ce que remboursent le DCS et le Bureau de l&#039;enfance) ou r\u00e9duire ce que vous d\u00e9pensez en produits biologiques.<\/p>\n<p>Je sais que la prochaine chose pourrait \u00eatre tr\u00e8s d\u00e9licate, mais je vais le dire quand m\u00eame\u00a0; la famille \u00e9largie devrait faire de m\u00eame. S&#039;ils ont du mal \u00e0 accepter ce concept, pour rendre les choses \u00e9gales, alors peut-\u00eatre que vous, en tant que parents, devriez leur dire de ne pas se donner la peine d&#039;acheter des cadeaux.<\/p>\n<p>Aie. Mais je continue\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Il est plus que probable que vos enfants biologiques se porteront bien sans les dons de la famille \u00e9largie. Par-dessus tout, et plus important encore, vous aurez sauv\u00e9 le respect et \u00e9vit\u00e9 les dommages \u00e9motionnels de vos enfants adoptifs.<\/p>\n<p>Si vous avez des traditions de No\u00ebl en famille, incluez les enfants adoptifs ; m\u00eame si c&#039;est difficile et que cela vous co\u00fbte de l&#039;argent. Demandez-vous si cela vaut la peine de sacrifier l&#039;enfant \u00e9motionnellement parce que vous ne voulez pas vous en soucier ou si vous ne voulez pas d\u00e9penser d&#039;argent ?<\/p>\n<p>Je sais que cela semble dur. Mais je ne le publierais pas si je ne l\u2019avais pas vu de mes propres yeux.<\/p>\n<p>Enfin, incluez-les toujours dans les images. Pendant cette p\u00e9riode, au m\u00eame titre que les cadeaux, incluez-les dans les photos. Ils font partie de votre famille\u00a0; m\u00eame si ce n&#039;est pas pour toujours. Pouvez-vous imaginer l\u2019embarras qu\u2019ils ressentiraient en cas d\u2019exclusion ?<\/p>\n<p>Ils constituent votre famille et doivent \u00eatre trait\u00e9s comme tels.<\/p>\n<p>Sinc\u00e8rement,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know in a previous post I discussed navigating the holidays with biological parents. Now, I\u2019d actually like to put some thoughts down regarding the holidays in terms of the foster kids themselves. This year, being what it is, we might not all have the large family gatherings that we have had in the past. 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