{"id":10189,"date":"2020-11-16T15:58:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T20:58:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=10189"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:22","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:22","slug":"conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/fr\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/","title":{"rendered":"CONSEILS DE CONVERSATION POUR LA TABLE DES F\u00caTES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eame si les f\u00eates peuvent \u00eatre diff\u00e9rentes cette ann\u00e9e en raison de la COVID-19, elles peuvent quand m\u00eame \u00eatre un moment de c\u00e9l\u00e9bration. \u00c0 l\u2019approche des conversations autour de la table des F\u00eates, n\u2019oubliez pas que 2020 a \u00e9t\u00e9 une ann\u00e9e \u00e9motionnellement intense et bouleversante pour beaucoup. Ainsi, que vos f\u00eates de famille se d\u00e9roulent en personne ou virtuellement, il est fort possible que des sujets qui divisent soient dans les esprits. Les discussions charg\u00e9es d\u2019\u00e9motion rendent souvent l\u2019atmosph\u00e8re tendue et peuvent provoquer des ruptures avec nos proches.<\/p>\n<h6><strong>VOICI QUELQUES CONSEILS POUR \u00c9VITER LES DISCUSSIONS CHAUDES ET GARDER LA CONVERSATION DES VACANCES CIVILE.<\/strong><\/h6>\n<ul>\n<li>Essayez de ne pas vous rendre \u00e0 une r\u00e9union de famille ou \u00e0 un appel Zoom pr\u00eat \u00e0 vous battre. Apr\u00e8s tout, ce n\u2019est pas une raison pour se r\u00e9unir, et il est peu probable que les avis changent au cours de discussions anim\u00e9es.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Vous pouvez avoir des sentiments forts sur certains sujets et \u00eatre enclin \u00e0 les exprimer, mais comprenez que la satisfaction momentan\u00e9e de le faire peut se faire au d\u00e9triment d&#039;une journ\u00e9e par ailleurs agr\u00e9able. Il n&#039;y a rien de mal \u00e0 mettre de c\u00f4t\u00e9 les grands sujets pendant une journ\u00e9e et \u00e0 accorder un peu de gr\u00e2ce aux autres.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>V\u00e9rifiez vos motivations pour vous engager dans un \u00e9change. Voulez-vous vous connecter avec quelqu&#039;un? Ou voulez-vous \u00ab gagner \u00bb ? Les conversations combatives ont tendance \u00e0 amener les gens \u00e0 s\u2019enraciner encore plus dans leurs croyances.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Essayez plut\u00f4t de participer \u00e0 une discussion avec l\u2019intention d\u2019apprendre. Pourquoi quelqu\u2019un ressent-il ce qu\u2019il ressent ? Pourquoi un certain sujet est-il important pour eux\u00a0? Une approche curieuse facilite la compr\u00e9hension.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Lorsque vous partagez votre propre point de vue, proposez une histoire qui illustre pourquoi vous ressentez une certaine opinion \u00e0 propos d&#039;un poste ou d&#039;un sujet. Utilisez des d\u00e9clarations \u00ab\u00a0je\u00a0\u00bb pour expliquer comment vous en \u00eates arriv\u00e9 \u00e0 avoir vos opinions.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c9vitez les statistiques. Chacun a son propre ensemble adapt\u00e9 \u00e0 ses besoins.<\/li>\n<li>Ne g\u00e9n\u00e9ralisez pas et ne supposez pas que simplement parce que quelqu&#039;un ressent une certaine opinion sur le sujet A, vous connaissez automatiquement sa position sur les sujets B, C et D.<\/li>\n<li>Ne jamais rabaisser.<\/li>\n<li>Si vous savez \u00e0 l\u2019avance que certaines personnes aiment soulever des questions controvers\u00e9es, \u00e9laborez une strat\u00e9gie pour d\u00e9tourner la conversation. Il n&#039;y a rien de mal \u00e0 imposer des limites autour des sujets qui vous mettent mal \u00e0 l&#039;aise. Si quelqu&#039;un \u00e9voque la politique et que vous ne souhaitez pas vous engager, vous pouvez dire \u00ab\u00a0C&#039;est certainement une p\u00e9riode int\u00e9ressante dans notre pays.\u00a0\u00bb S&#039;ils persistent, vous pourriez dire : \u00ab J&#039;appr\u00e9cie votre passion, mais il semble que cela pourrait conduire \u00e0 un d\u00e9saccord. Pouvons-nous parler d\u2019autre chose ? ou &quot;Je pr\u00e9f\u00e8re de loin savoir comment vont vos enfants.&quot;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Vous pouvez \u00e9galement \u00e9couter<a href=\"https:\/\/www.familiesfirstindiana.org\/podcast\"><em>\u00a0Garder la politique en perspective, sur le podcast The Family Table,<\/em><\/a>\u00a0pour obtenir des conseils sur la fa\u00e7on de parler et de fixer des limites aux conversations politiques.<\/p>\n<p>Consid\u00e9rez les vacances comme une occasion d\u2019explorer la gentillesse et l\u2019empathie, et non de \u00ab creuser dans les tranch\u00e9es \u00bb, et vous pourriez commencer \u00e0 soulager une partie du stress des vacances.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eame si les f\u00eates peuvent \u00eatre diff\u00e9rentes cette ann\u00e9e en raison de la COVID-19, elles peuvent quand m\u00eame \u00eatre un moment de c\u00e9l\u00e9bration. \u00c0 l\u2019approche des conversations autour de la table des F\u00eates, n\u2019oubliez pas que 2020 a \u00e9t\u00e9 une ann\u00e9e \u00e9motionnellement intense et bouleversante pour beaucoup. Ainsi, que vos f\u00eates de famille se d\u00e9roulent en personne ou virtuellement, il est fort possible que des sujets qui divisent soient dans les esprits. Les discussions charg\u00e9es d\u2019\u00e9motion rendent souvent l\u2019atmosph\u00e8re tendue et peuvent provoquer des ruptures avec nos proches. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-childhood-development"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/fr\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Even though the holidays may look different this year due to COVID-19, they can still be a time for celebration. 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