{"id":9669,"date":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","date_gmt":"2021-07-29T21:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9669"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:52","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:52","slug":"kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-pats-praise-accolades\/","title":{"rendered":"Rinc\u00f3n de Kris: palmaditas, elogios y reconocimientos"},"content":{"rendered":"

As\u00ed que esta es la cuesti\u00f3n: si buscas muchas palmaditas en la espalda o elogios y elogios, ser padre de crianza (o cualquier trabajo en trabajo social, en realidad) puede no ser para ti.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Para ser justos, no es que nadie vea lo que haces o que tu tiempo, energ\u00eda y esfuerzo no se noten\u2026sino que las personas que se dan cuenta muchas veces est\u00e1n tan abrumadas como t\u00fa y sinceramente no se toman el tiempo para dec\u00edrtelo. .<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Descanse sabiendo que est\u00e1 haciendo un buen trabajo y asuma que los dem\u00e1s se dar\u00e1n cuenta. Puede consolarse con el hecho de que tendr\u00e1 noticias de alguien si ve que hay un problema; Definitivamente es un caso de \u201cno tener noticias es una buena noticia\u201d.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Eso no quiere decir que nunca ser\u00e1s reconocido... definitivamente lo ser\u00e1s (\u00a1y tengo que decir que Children's Bureau es realmente fabuloso al reconocer a sus padres adoptivos!), pero no siempre que haces algo realmente grandioso. Es algo as\u00ed como la vida en general, \u00bfverdad?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>El punto es... la protecci\u00f3n del ni\u00f1o bajo su cuidado es lo que realmente importa y usted, como padre de crianza, simplemente contin\u00fae, siga haciendo y siga defendiendo al ni\u00f1o.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Un par de padres adoptivos lo dijeron de esta manera:<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u201cTe sentir\u00e1s ignorado, subestimado y, a veces, tratado como si no tuvieras ni idea. Sigamos luchando por los ni\u00f1os a pesar de esto\u201d.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u201cHar\u00e1s MUCHA promoci\u00f3n. Sol\u00eda ser mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de convencer y ahora hablo bastante y puedo exponer mi caso sin romper a llorar (normalmente)\u201d.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Ahora bien, si no eres t\u00edpicamente emocional, este \u00faltimo comentario puede resultar confuso... pero la conclusi\u00f3n es que puede volverse emocional, porque estos ni\u00f1os se vuelven \u201cnuestros\u201d. Hacemos lobby en su nombre y luchamos por ellos porque alguien lo necesita. Y nadie los conoce como nosotros\u2026 a veces ni siquiera sus familias biol\u00f3gicas.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Y, sinceramente, esto es exactamente para lo que nos inscribimos. Si tienes hijos biol\u00f3gicos, \u00bfcon qu\u00e9 frecuencia alguien te dice que est\u00e1s haciendo un excelente trabajo? No tan a menudo como escuchas cuando hay un problema, \u00bfverdad?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>En el trabajo, \u00bfa menudo lo felicitan por su atenci\u00f3n a los detalles o es m\u00e1s probable que siga trabajando con la nariz pegada a la muela, pero cuando surge un problema, es cuando alguien le habla sobre la calidad de su trabajo?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Ahora... espero estar equivocado y recibir una lluvia de elogios por su crianza estelar y su excelente desempe\u00f1o laboral, pero la mayor\u00eda de las veces, creo que es todo lo contrario. No es que los elogios NO lleguen... definitivamente s\u00ed. Pero no es tan frecuente como nos gustar\u00eda o creemos que est\u00e1n justificados.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>El punto es: el cuidado de crianza no es diferente de cualquier otra cosa que hagas en la vida. Si est\u00e1 en las trincheras y tiene un impacto en la vida de un ni\u00f1o, sepa que cambiar la trayectoria de la vida del ni\u00f1o para mejor es el mayor y mejor elogio que podr\u00eda recibir.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Atentamente,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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