{"id":9015,"date":"2020-12-10T20:41:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-10T20:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9015"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:21","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:21","slug":"kris-corner-christmas-in-foster-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-christmas-in-foster-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Rinc\u00f3n de Kris \u2013 Navidad en hogares de acogida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00e9 que en una publicaci\u00f3n anterior habl\u00e9 sobre c\u00f3mo navegar las vacaciones con los padres biol\u00f3gicos. Ahora, en realidad me gustar\u00eda poner algunos pensamientos sobre las vacaciones en t\u00e9rminos de los propios ni\u00f1os de crianza.<\/p>\n<p>Este a\u00f1o, siendo lo que es, es posible que no todos tengamos las grandes reuniones familiares que hemos tenido en el pasado. Por lo tanto, puede que no sea un gran problema. Sin embargo, voy a tratarlo como si fuera un a\u00f1o t\u00edpico.<\/p>\n<p>Las vacaciones son dif\u00edciles para muchas personas, pero especialmente para los ni\u00f1os de crianza. No est\u00e1n con su familia biol\u00f3gica. \u00bfTe imaginas c\u00f3mo se debe sentir... estar lejos de la comodidad del hogar? Como hemos discutido anteriormente, estar lejos de lo que es normal es muy inquietante y molesto, incluso si esa normalidad no es saludable.<\/p>\n<p>Para empeorar las cosas, los ni\u00f1os adoptivos pueden estar viviendo con una familia que no sabe qu\u00e9 hacer con respecto a las vacaciones. La familia de crianza podr\u00eda estar pensando en cosas como:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00bfIncluimos a los ni\u00f1os adoptivos en las fotos familiares?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfLes compramos la misma cantidad de regalos que a nuestros hijos biol\u00f3gicos?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfGastamos la misma cantidad en cada ni\u00f1o de crianza?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfTenemos que gastar nuestro propio dinero m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de lo que DCS y Children&#039;s Bureau nos reembolsar\u00e1n?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfC\u00f3mo maneja nuestra familia extensa la compra de regalos (y todas las dem\u00e1s \u201cactividades festivas\u201d)?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfEst\u00e1 bien que nuestra familia extendida compre regalos para nuestros hijos biol\u00f3gicos pero no para nuestros hijos adoptivos?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfO pueden, obviamente, \u201cir a bajo precio\u201d con los ni\u00f1os de acogida \u201cporque no importa\u2026 en realidad no son nuestros ni\u00f1os\u201d?<\/li>\n<li>\u00bfC\u00f3mo deben manejarse todas estas cosas (y m\u00e1s)?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Mientras lee estas preguntas, probablemente pueda adivinar lo que voy a decir a continuaci\u00f3n. Y si no puedes, puede que seas nuevo en mi blog.<\/p>\n<p>Los ni\u00f1os bajo su cuidado deben ser tratados como si fueran sus hijos. Porque al menos por este per\u00edodo de tiempo... son sus hijos. Deben ser tratados con el mismo amor, cuidado, compasi\u00f3n y respeto que cualquier ni\u00f1o que sea legalmente suyo para siempre. Entonces, si gasta cierta cantidad en cada ni\u00f1o, esa cantidad tambi\u00e9n debe gastarse en el ni\u00f1o de crianza. Eso podr\u00eda significar gastar de su propio bolsillo en obsequios (m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de lo que DCS y Children&#039;s Bureau reembolsan) o reducir lo que gasta en sus productos biol\u00f3gicos.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que lo siguiente puede ser muy delicado, pero lo voy a decir de todos modos; la familia extensa debe hacer lo mismo. Si tienen problemas para aceptar este concepto, para que las cosas sean iguales, entonces tal vez ustedes, como padres, deban decirles que no se molesten en comprar ning\u00fan regalo.<\/p>\n<p>Ay. Pero sigo\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s probable es que sus hijos biol\u00f3gicos est\u00e9n bien sin los regalos de la familia extensa. Por encima de todo, y m\u00e1s importante, habr\u00e1s salvado el respeto y prevenido el da\u00f1o emocional de tus hijos adoptivos.<\/p>\n<p>Si tienes tradiciones navide\u00f1as familiares, incluye a los ni\u00f1os de crianza; incluso si es dif\u00edcil y te cuesta dinero. Preg\u00fantese, \u00bfvale la pena sacrificar al ni\u00f1o emocionalmente porque no quiere molestarse con \u00e9l o porque no quiere gastar el dinero?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que esto parece duro. Pero no lo estar\u00eda publicando si no lo hubiera visto con mis propios ojos.<\/p>\n<p>Por \u00faltimo, incl\u00fayelos siempre en las im\u00e1genes. Por este per\u00edodo de tiempo, por la misma raz\u00f3n que los regalos, incl\u00fayalos en las fotograf\u00edas. Son parte de tu familia; aunque no sea para siempre. \u00bfTe imaginas la verg\u00fcenza que sentir\u00edan por la exclusi\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>Ellos son su familia y deben ser tratados como tales.<\/p>\n<p>Atentamente,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know in a previous post I discussed navigating the holidays with biological parents. Now, I\u2019d actually like to put some thoughts down regarding the holidays in terms of the foster kids themselves. This year, being what it is, we might not all have the large family gatherings that we have had in the past. 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