{"id":10402,"date":"2022-04-07T16:17:37","date_gmt":"2022-04-07T20:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=10402"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:16","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:16","slug":"kris-corner-disney-like-experiences","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/","title":{"rendered":"Rinc\u00f3n de Kris \u2013 Experiencias tipo Disney"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>En mi \u00faltima publicaci\u00f3n, alent\u00e9 a los padres de crianza a ser comprensivos y pacientes a medida que el ni\u00f1o se adapta a su nuevo entorno; porque estar\u00e1n expuestos a una variedad de nuevas experiencias.<\/p>\n<p>Pero hoy, quiero hablar sobre otro fen\u00f3meno (aunque menos com\u00fan) en t\u00e9rminos de experiencias con ni\u00f1os que ingresan al cuidado... y esa es la tentaci\u00f3n de brindarles &quot;Experiencias similares a las de Disney&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 quiero decir con eso? Bueno, es la idea de que este ni\u00f1o \u201cse ha perdido tantas cosas debido a su trauma y estilo de vida, que quiero compensarlo d\u00e1ndoles todas las cosas que no han tenido; y\/o llevarlos a hacer todas las cosas divertidas y sorprendentes que se han perdido... \u00a1y m\u00e1s!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Incluye todas las cosas divertidas, nuevas y emocionantes. Podr\u00eda ser comprarles el \u00faltimo tel\u00e9fono o zapatos caros. Puede ser visitar restaurantes divertidos o diferentes. Puede ser ver ciertos programas o pel\u00edculas (o ir al cine). Podr\u00eda ser hacer un viaje a un parque de diversiones o unas vacaciones grandes y elegantes. Podr\u00eda ser disfrutar de divertidas actividades familiares todos los fines de semana. Podr\u00edan ser MUCHAS cosas diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 un padre adoptivo har\u00eda este tipo de cosas? Bueno, entiendo que este tipo de reacci\u00f3n en un padre de crianza nace del sentimiento de culpa que siente porque el ni\u00f1o ha tenido una experiencia de vida dif\u00edcil (y generalmente dolorosa) hasta este momento. Y en la superficie, no parece TAN malo que el padre de crianza \u201ccompense\u201d que el ni\u00f1o se lo haya perdido, pero criar con esta culpa al frente no es lo mejor para el ni\u00f1o, por varias razones.<\/p>\n<p>Estas razones incluyen, pero no se limitan a:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>confusi\u00f3n sobre lo que es\/deber\u00eda ser importante;<\/li>\n<li>Expectativas irrealistas;<\/li>\n<li>descontento con los padres biol\u00f3gicos del ni\u00f1o (especialmente si se reunifican);<\/li>\n<li>apego inapropiado al hogar de crianza oa los padres, basado en las cosas tangibles que un ni\u00f1o puede recibir, o las experiencias que puede tener; y<\/li>\n<li>percepci\u00f3n incorrecta de lo que es realmente ser parte de una familia.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Y posiblemente el mayor efecto secundario es que aumenta la brecha ya existente entre la familia de acogida y la familia biol\u00f3gica. Definitivamente esa no es la meta ni el objetivo del cuidado de crianza. El objetivo suele ser la reunificaci\u00f3n. Por lo tanto, si usted est\u00e1 constantemente comprando y haciendo todas las cosas que el ni\u00f1o quiere, tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 abriendo una brecha entre las dos familias, intencionalmente o no, agregando as\u00ed una carga emocional a un ni\u00f1o que ya est\u00e1 agobiado por muchas cosas. equipaje emocional.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora\u2026 no estoy diciendo que no pueda hacer cosas divertidas, agradables o especiales para un ni\u00f1o de crianza\u2026 todas esas cosas valen totalmente la pena y s\u00ed, DEBER\u00cdA hacerlas. Pero lo que estoy diciendo es que no deben hacerse desde el principio, porque confundir\u00e1 y dificultar\u00e1 la relaci\u00f3n tanto para usted como para el ni\u00f1o. Y ser\u00eda dif\u00edcil de mantener a largo plazo.<\/p>\n<p>Y hablando de largo plazo... \u00bfes esa la forma en que realmente quieres criar a un ni\u00f1o? Quiero decir, especialmente, si por alguna raz\u00f3n, usted termina d\u00e1ndole al ni\u00f1o un hogar permanente, \u00bfseguir\u00e1 manteniendo un alto nivel de regalos frecuentes o costosos y entretenimiento de alta energ\u00eda? No, probablemente no lo har\u00e1... y entonces, \u00bfd\u00f3nde deja eso las cosas entre usted y el ni\u00f1o? Van a sentir que les tiraste el cebo y les cambiaste... pretendiendo ser una cosa, cuando en realidad eras otra cosa. Y dudo que tenga que decir esto, pero no es una gran manera de tener relaci\u00f3n y apego.<\/p>\n<p>Todo eso para decir, esto es solo algo para pensar antes de sumergirse y querer dar, dar, dar ... en lugar de simplemente ser, ser, ser.<\/p>\n<p>Atentamente,<\/p>\n<p>Kris<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In my last post, I encouraged foster parents to be understanding and patient as a child adapts to their new environment; because they will be exposed to a variety of new experiences. But today, I want to talk about another (albeit less common) phenomenon in terms of experiences with kids coming into care\u2026and that is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kriss-corner"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences - Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"In my last post, I encouraged foster parents to be understanding and patient as a child adapts to their new environment; because they will be exposed to a variety of new experiences. But today, I want to talk about another (albeit less common) phenomenon in terms of experiences with kids coming into care\u2026and that is [&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2022-04-07T20:17:37+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2025-02-25T17:05:16+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Escrito por\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Tiempo de lectura\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutos\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Firefly Children and Family Alliance\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/4a0a717d05ab7bca77c74ce89ec295bf\"},\"headline\":\"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences\",\"datePublished\":\"2022-04-07T20:17:37+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2025-02-25T17:05:16+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":654,\"commentCount\":0,\"articleSection\":[\"Kris' Corner\"],\"inLanguage\":\"es\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/\",\"name\":\"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences - Firefly Children and Family Alliance\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2022-04-07T20:17:37+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2025-02-25T17:05:16+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/4a0a717d05ab7bca77c74ce89ec295bf\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"es\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\\\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/\",\"name\":\"Firefly Children and Family Alliance\",\"description\":\"foster parents impact, foster kids, foster parents needed, a foster parent&#039;s role\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"es\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/4a0a717d05ab7bca77c74ce89ec295bf\",\"name\":\"Firefly Children and Family Alliance\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"es\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/05d76712c41f02a8e2d8f22346b1a85e7f00cb4436efc2fa6670ee39129fd71b?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/05d76712c41f02a8e2d8f22346b1a85e7f00cb4436efc2fa6670ee39129fd71b?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/05d76712c41f02a8e2d8f22346b1a85e7f00cb4436efc2fa6670ee39129fd71b?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Firefly Children and Family Alliance\"},\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/fireflyin.org\\\/es\\\/resources\\\/news-library\\\/author\\\/firefly-children-and-family-alliance\\\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences - Firefly Children and Family Alliance","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/","og_locale":"es_ES","og_type":"article","og_title":"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences - Firefly Children and Family Alliance","og_description":"In my last post, I encouraged foster parents to be understanding and patient as a child adapts to their new environment; because they will be exposed to a variety of new experiences. But today, I want to talk about another (albeit less common) phenomenon in terms of experiences with kids coming into care\u2026and that is [&hellip;]","og_url":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/","og_site_name":"Firefly Children and Family Alliance","article_published_time":"2022-04-07T20:17:37+00:00","article_modified_time":"2025-02-25T17:05:16+00:00","author":"Firefly Children and Family Alliance","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Escrito por":"Firefly Children and Family Alliance","Tiempo de lectura":"3 minutos"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/"},"author":{"name":"Firefly Children and Family Alliance","@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/#\/schema\/person\/4a0a717d05ab7bca77c74ce89ec295bf"},"headline":"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences","datePublished":"2022-04-07T20:17:37+00:00","dateModified":"2025-02-25T17:05:16+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/"},"wordCount":654,"commentCount":0,"articleSection":["Kris' Corner"],"inLanguage":"es"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/","url":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/","name":"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences - Firefly Children and Family Alliance","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/#website"},"datePublished":"2022-04-07T20:17:37+00:00","dateModified":"2025-02-25T17:05:16+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/#\/schema\/person\/4a0a717d05ab7bca77c74ce89ec295bf"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"es","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-disney-like-experiences\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Kris\u2019 Corner \u2013 Disney-like Experiences"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/#website","url":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/","name":"Alianza de Ni\u00f1os y Familias Firefly","description":"impacto de los padres adoptivos, ni\u00f1os adoptivos, se necesitan padres adoptivos, el papel de un padre adoptivo&#039;","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"es"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/#\/schema\/person\/4a0a717d05ab7bca77c74ce89ec295bf","name":"Alianza de Ni\u00f1os y Familias Firefly","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"es","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/05d76712c41f02a8e2d8f22346b1a85e7f00cb4436efc2fa6670ee39129fd71b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/05d76712c41f02a8e2d8f22346b1a85e7f00cb4436efc2fa6670ee39129fd71b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/05d76712c41f02a8e2d8f22346b1a85e7f00cb4436efc2fa6670ee39129fd71b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Firefly Children and Family Alliance"},"url":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/author\/firefly-children-and-family-alliance\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10402","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10402"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10402\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10402"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10402"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10402"}],"curies":[{"name":"gracias","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}