{"id":10189,"date":"2020-11-16T15:58:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T20:58:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/?p=10189"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:06:22","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:06:22","slug":"conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/","title":{"rendered":"CONSEJOS DE CONVERSACI\u00d3N PARA LA MESA DE VACACIONES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aunque las festividades pueden parecer diferentes este a\u00f1o debido al COVID-19, a\u00fan pueden ser un momento de celebraci\u00f3n. A medida que se acerque a las conversaciones de mesa navide\u00f1as, recuerde que 2020 ha sido un a\u00f1o emocionalmente intenso y abrumador para muchos. Por lo tanto, ya sea que sus celebraciones familiares se realicen en persona o virtualmente, es muy posible que haya temas divisivos en la mente de las personas. Las discusiones cargadas de emociones a menudo tensan la atm\u00f3sfera y pueden causar rupturas con las personas cercanas.<\/p>\n<h6><strong>AQU\u00cd HAY ALGUNOS CONSEJOS PARA EVITAR DISCUSIONES ACOBRADAS Y MANTENER LA CONVERSACI\u00d3N CIVIL DE LAS VACACIONES.<\/strong><\/h6>\n<ul>\n<li>Trate de no ir a una reuni\u00f3n familiar o una llamada de Zoom lista para la batalla. Despu\u00e9s de todo, esa no es la raz\u00f3n para reunirse, y es poco probable que cambien de opini\u00f3n en una discusi\u00f3n acalorada.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Es posible que tenga fuertes sentimientos sobre ciertos temas y se incline a airearlos, pero comprenda que la satisfacci\u00f3n moment\u00e1nea de hacerlo podr\u00eda tener el costo de un d\u00eda agradable. Est\u00e1 bien dejar de lado los grandes temas por un d\u00eda y permitir que otros tengan algo de gracia.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Compruebe sus motivaciones para participar en un intercambio. \u00bfQuieres conectarte con alguien? \u00bfO quieres \u201cganar\u201d? Las conversaciones combativas tienden a hacer que las personas se arraiguen a\u00fan m\u00e1s en sus creencias.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>En su lugar, intente entrar en una discusi\u00f3n con la intenci\u00f3n de aprender. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 alguien se siente como se siente? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 cierto tema es importante para ellos? Un enfoque curioso facilita la comprensi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Cuando comparta su propio punto de vista, ofrezca una historia que ilustre por qu\u00e9 se siente de cierta manera acerca de una posici\u00f3n o tema. Use declaraciones con \u201cyo\u201d para explicar c\u00f3mo ha llegado a mantener sus opiniones.<\/li>\n<li>Evita las estad\u00edsticas. Cada uno tiene su propio conjunto para satisfacer sus prop\u00f3sitos.<\/li>\n<li>No generalices y no asumas que solo porque alguien se siente de cierta manera sobre el tema A, autom\u00e1ticamente conoces su postura sobre los temas B, C y D.<\/li>\n<li>Nunca menosprecies.<\/li>\n<li>Si sabe de antemano que hay personas a las que les gusta plantear temas pol\u00e9micos, tenga una estrategia para desviar la conversaci\u00f3n. Est\u00e1 bien tener l\u00edmites en torno a los temas que te hacen sentir inc\u00f3modo. Si alguien menciona la pol\u00edtica y no desea involucrarse, puede intentar &quot;Seguro que es un momento interesante en nuestro pa\u00eds&quot;. Si persisten, podr\u00edas intentar \u201cAprecio tu pasi\u00f3n, pero parece que esto podr\u00eda conducir a un desacuerdo. \u00bfPodemos hablar de otra cosa? o \u201cPrefiero saber c\u00f3mo les est\u00e1 yendo a sus hijos\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n puedes escuchar<a href=\"https:\/\/www.familiesfirstindiana.org\/podcast\"><em>\u00a0Manteniendo la pol\u00edtica en perspectiva, en el podcast The Family Table,<\/em><\/a>\u00a0para obtener consejos sobre c\u00f3mo hablar y establecer l\u00edmites en las conversaciones pol\u00edticas.<\/p>\n<p>Considere las fiestas como una oportunidad para explorar la bondad y la empat\u00eda, no para \u201ccavar en las trincheras\u201d, y podr\u00eda comenzar a aliviar parte del estr\u00e9s de las fiestas.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aunque las festividades pueden parecer diferentes este a\u00f1o debido al COVID-19, a\u00fan pueden ser un momento de celebraci\u00f3n. A medida que se acerque a las conversaciones de mesa navide\u00f1as, recuerde que 2020 ha sido un a\u00f1o emocionalmente intenso y abrumador para muchos. Por lo tanto, ya sea que sus celebraciones familiares se realicen en persona o virtualmente, es muy posible que haya temas divisivos en la mente de las personas. Las discusiones cargadas de emociones a menudo tensan la atm\u00f3sfera y pueden causar rupturas con las personas cercanas. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-childhood-development"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/es\/resources\/news-library\/conversation-tips-for-the-holiday-table\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"CONVERSATION TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAY TABLE - Firefly Children and Family Alliance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Even though the holidays may look different this year due to COVID-19, they can still be a time for celebration. 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