{"id":9425,"date":"2021-06-17T21:35:24","date_gmt":"2021-06-17T21:35:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrensbureau.org\/?p=9425"},"modified":"2025-02-25T12:05:53","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T17:05:53","slug":"kris-corner-from-the-trenches-what-i-wish-id-know-part-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fireflyin.org\/de\/resources\/news-library\/kris-corner-from-the-trenches-what-i-wish-id-know-part-6\/","title":{"rendered":"Kris' Corner \u2013 From the Trenches: Was ich gerne w\u00fcsste, Teil 5"},"content":{"rendered":"

Diesmal m\u00f6chte ich Sie direkt mit einem Zitat eines Pflegeelternteils \u00fcberraschen: \u201eHilfe anzunehmen bedeutet nicht, dass Sie dies nicht tun k\u00f6nnen.\u201c<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Leute ... das habe ich schon einmal gesagt und ich werde es noch einmal sagen. Man kann kein Pflegeelternteil in einem Silo sein.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Nun, um fair zu sein ... Sie k\u00f6nnen es. Aber es wird viel schwieriger sein und die Chancen, es gut zu machen, werden ehrlich gesagt geringer sein. Wie finden Sie also Ihre Hilfe?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ich habe in der Vergangenheit \u00fcber Pflegegemeinschaften gesprochen, und diese sind eine gro\u00dfartige M\u00f6glichkeit, wie Pflegefamilien Hilfe erhalten k\u00f6nnen. Falls Sie diesen Beitrag verpasst haben: Dies ist eine umfassende Unterst\u00fctzung von 4 bis 6 Personen (oder mehr, wenn die Pflegefamilie viele Kinder hat) und kann eine gro\u00dfartige, best\u00e4ndige Unterst\u00fctzungsquelle f\u00fcr eine Pflegefamilie sein.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Aber nicht jeder hat Zugang zu einer Care Community. Tats\u00e4chlich ist dies bei den meisten Pflegeeltern nicht der Fall. Was tun sie also?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Ich ermutige Pflegeeltern, ein Unterst\u00fctzungssystem aufzubauen, das gr\u00f6\u00dftenteils aus anderen Pflegeeltern besteht. Allerdings m\u00fcssen unbedingt auch Nicht-Pflegeeltern einbezogen werden, denn wen sonst w\u00fcrden Sie rekrutieren, indem Sie sie langsam in Ihre Welt hineinziehen?!? Aber im Ernst, Ihre Unterst\u00fctzung sollte beides umfassen.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Wo findet man diese Pflegeeltern? Ich habe meins durch die Kirche und durch eine Pflege- und Adoptiveltern-Selbsthilfegruppe gefunden. Man muss nicht sehr viele kennen, und dann ist es, als w\u00fcrden sich die Schleusen \u00f6ffnen \u2026 Wir sind SO VIELE, dass man oft kaum glauben kann, dass man sie nicht immer gesehen hat.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0T<\/span>Finden Sie durch diese Verbindungen Ihre Leute \u2026 diejenigen, mit denen Sie sich identifizieren k\u00f6nnen, diejenigen, die \u201edasselbe Lied singen\u201c, diejenigen, die Eltern sind wie Sie (oder wie Sie es W\u00dcNSCHEN). Und dann gehen Sie einfach neben ihnen her ... und die Chancen stehen gut, dass sie es erwidern werden.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Die Nicht-Pflegefamilien werden die Freunde und Verwandten sein, die bereits in Ihrem Leben sind und Sie in diesem neuen Kapitel begleiten und unterst\u00fctzen m\u00f6chten.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Warum genau brauchen wir diese Menschen und ihre Unterst\u00fctzung in unserem Leben?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Erstens werden Sie Termine haben ... viele Termine, so viele Termine. Arzttermine und Therapietermine und Gerichtsverhandlungen und Besuche und so weiter. Plus einfach das Leben insgesamt.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Y<\/span>Sie werden Hilfe brauchen, um das Kind hierhin, dorthin und \u00fcberall hin zu bringen \u2026 vor allem, wenn es mehr als ein Kind gibt. Unabh\u00e4ngig davon, ob Sie Vollzeit, Teilzeit arbeiten, zur Schule gehen oder eine Kombination dieser Dinge tun, ben\u00f6tigen Sie Hilfe.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Nun, n<\/span>o man versteht, was man erlebt, genau wie die anderen im selben Boot, daher ist es hilfreich, sie auf jeden Fall an seiner Seite zu haben. Aber auch Freunde und Familie (die m\u00f6glicherweise nicht im selben Boot sitzen) m\u00f6chten auf jeden Fall helfen. Sie verstehen vielleicht nicht immer, was in Ihrer Welt passiert, aber die Chancen stehen gut, dass sie helfen wollen. Daher ermutige ich Sie, ihre Angebote zu nutzen. Manchmal, wenn Ihnen eine Mahlzeit, die Abholung von Lebensmitteln oder etwas anderem im Laden angeboten wird, sagen Sie \u201eJa\u201c; immer ein Ja!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ich wei\u00df, was Sie denken: Manchmal f\u00fchlt es sich peinlich an oder es sieht so aus, als ob Sie damit nicht klarkommen. Aber ehrlich gesagt, vielleicht kannst du das nicht ... zumindest nicht an diesem Tag. Oder Woche. Und das ist in Ordnung.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Hilfe anzunehmen bedeutet nicht, dass man es nicht tun kann. Das k\u00f6nnen Sie durchaus, aber vielleicht schaffen Sie es mit ein wenig Hilfe nebenbei besser. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Praktisch alles, was Sie tun, l\u00e4sst sich mit Hilfe einfacher erledigen. Warum sollte die Pflege in einer Pflegefamilie anders sein?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Aufrichtig,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Kris<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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